The forgotten button

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

DJBen

Master Don Juan

Aug 17, 2004

I'm mainly a person who lurks around the health and fitness forum these days. I browse about the others, but I leave the people who know their stuff better than me to give all the answers etc...

But what the hell... does the latest patch/upgrade for Internet Explorer block the search button from loading up, because recently things have got on the same newbie track that people ALWAYS go down.

I dont know if theres much anyone can do about it, but it's something that's begun to tick me off a bit as of late.

rant over ^^

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.