we all eat food
Senior Don Juan
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i dont have anyone to go with, so is it OK, if i go there alone, and the prep rally before the game.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Great Job man!!! See it WAS worth it......keep taking chances like this and meeting new people....slowly but surely youll have a great social life.Originally posted by we all eat food
Alright so i went to the prep rally, and i saw my teamate Sam, and hes a really quite kid so i just watched all the teams come out and ****, and then afterwards there was a huge bonfire and everyone was getting ****ed up smoking drinking, and the police came in and ****, i only smoked though, and everyone was like going crazy ****in jumpin and takiling people, and then i found a group to talk to that i sometimes talk to in class, and i was just chillen with them there and then afterwards we are waiting outside with everyone else and i saw some more kids and everyone was ****ed up, so those kids i was with ditched me since im not there friend and i went home. end. Overall i had a good time besides being ditched, but that didnt bother me since im not even friends with those kids. I just talked to some kids in my classes or acknowleged them after they ditched me and ****. END
i still dont have a social life but none the less i had a good time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.