"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If any of you are making dinner at your place for a girlfriend/FB/Hookup whatever and can't think of anything to make. Google "The Food Network". There are literally thousands of recipies on classic or new type foods to make from Chefs around the world. They have user ratings, show the ingredients and how to prepare them, and have a search for whatever type of food you want to prepare. Steak, Chicken, Fish, PAsta, Salads etc. Just type in the search and tons will come up to try.

Site is a gold mine for cooking tips and those who can't cook. That is if you're looking to impress family, a woman, (when she deserves it) or guests and aren't so great in the kitchen. Even the experienced DJ cooks should check it out. A real lifesaver!
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No. lol. You've got to check it out. Even to try stuff for yourself. That Food Network site is golden.
 

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The problem with my cooking is that I have a tendency to experiment with ingredients. I have to stick to something that works.

30% of the time it's amazing, 50ish% of the time its good and 10ish% of the time I order out for pizza. Only recently started inviting plates over to cook for them.
 

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How emasculated has America become? You should also learn how to change diapers, clean the house, and iron clothes. What a joke America is. And to think they are also fat and unattractive. Sad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BigJimbo said:
How emasculated has America become? You should also learn how to change diapers, clean the house, and iron clothes. What a joke America is. And to think they are also fat and unattractive. Sad.
disagree. Inviting a girl over to your place to cook her dinner has a much higher success rate than inviting her over to watch DVD's.

Cook Your Way Into Her Pants

I've even gotten away with getting some exotic take out (like thai or vietnamese) and puttting it in my own dishes.
 
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