"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If any of you are making dinner at your place for a girlfriend/FB/Hookup whatever and can't think of anything to make. Google "The Food Network". There are literally thousands of recipies on classic or new type foods to make from Chefs around the world. They have user ratings, show the ingredients and how to prepare them, and have a search for whatever type of food you want to prepare. Steak, Chicken, Fish, PAsta, Salads etc. Just type in the search and tons will come up to try.

Site is a gold mine for cooking tips and those who can't cook. That is if you're looking to impress family, a woman, (when she deserves it) or guests and aren't so great in the kitchen. Even the experienced DJ cooks should check it out. A real lifesaver!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No. lol. You've got to check it out. Even to try stuff for yourself. That Food Network site is golden.
 

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The problem with my cooking is that I have a tendency to experiment with ingredients. I have to stick to something that works.

30% of the time it's amazing, 50ish% of the time its good and 10ish% of the time I order out for pizza. Only recently started inviting plates over to cook for them.
 

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How emasculated has America become? You should also learn how to change diapers, clean the house, and iron clothes. What a joke America is. And to think they are also fat and unattractive. Sad.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BigJimbo said:
How emasculated has America become? You should also learn how to change diapers, clean the house, and iron clothes. What a joke America is. And to think they are also fat and unattractive. Sad.
disagree. Inviting a girl over to your place to cook her dinner has a much higher success rate than inviting her over to watch DVD's.

Cook Your Way Into Her Pants

I've even gotten away with getting some exotic take out (like thai or vietnamese) and puttting it in my own dishes.
 
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