"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trippychip

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Ok so ive been liking this girl for a while but up until now i couldnt even go up and talk to her. So now ive gone up and talked to her but my problem is im not quite sure how to let her know for sure that im not interested in just afriendship. I just need strategies to apply and things like that.

Any help is apreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmm i shoulda been more specific. Kino is a little much for just right now. I ment shti to say. Its gonna hard to use kino without getting her suspicious and stuff. I jus need some topics i bring up, maybe things i can tease about. things like taht
 

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Read teh bible.
 
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