"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you guys deal with frequently thinking about a girl you hadn't seen in a while and ended on bad terms with? I still think about a girl from way back but it's not really from a romantic perspective anymore (although I do occasionally when I hear an AFC song) but more from the "If-Only-She-Can-See-Me-Now" perspective. How do I just get over it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Juan, somethings you can't forget. What you must do is stop listening to whatever songs make you think of her, stop watching what shows make you think of her, stop looking at her myspace, etc.

Imagine this girl killed both of your parents, cut your penis off, then raped your sister... you will not want to see/think of her ever again.
 
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move on, the best way for you to get over her would be to get in a good relationship with a quality girl
 
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Been there, done that. Still doing it... The brain needs time to process all the emotions and it takes a lot of time. Just keep thinking of her bad sides, and why it would never work and there are better girls out there for you. It's all true too, because if she was good for you she'd love you not reject you.
 
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