"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The five love languages - what is yours?

MetalFortress

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http://www.fpgwebs.com/fivelovelang_profile.asp

In other words, what traits do you require most in a chick? (LTR-wise)

mine:

Your Name:
Total A - Words of Affirmation: 8
Total B - Quality Time: 5
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 6
Total D - Acts of Service: 2
Total E - Physical Touch: 9
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DrMetallica

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I'm totally going to ignore the original post and post the 5 hottest languages:

1) Russian
2) German
3) English
4) French
5) Arabic
 

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German? Serious? It sounds more like the language of technicians. Das Booty!
 

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For me:

Total A - Words of Affirmation: 1
Total B - Quality Time: 8
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 4
Total D - Acts of Service: 7
Total E - Physical Touch: 10

By the way, I also agree with diplomatic_lies, German is way too ugly.
Basically languages that are way too guttural are ugly.

German, Arabic are guttural, it's not good. Even French is a little guttural with the "r" sound (just a little bit, and it depends on how the person speaks as well).
And for some reason, all the eastern euoprean languages sound bad to me, maybe it's the backward "just out of communism" connotation that they convey.
So English is the way to go...:whistle:

Ok seriously Italian sounds good.
 

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I once saw this HB 9 speaking Polish! OMG! That was amazing! Not only was she a rare HB 9, but she was speaking Polish! Haha, doesn't get much better!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The_flying_dutchman

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Sexiest languages for a woman: French, German, Farsi<--- There's this hot as hell Iranian girl at my school and she's just too damn hot when she speaks Farsi.

Sexiest languages for man: English (Brittish english), German, Russian, Itallian.
 

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Total A - Words of Affirmation: 5
Total B - Quality Time: 7
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 2
Total D - Acts of Service: 5
Total E - Physical Touch: 11

Word.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DrMetallica

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diplomatic_lies said:
German? Serious? It sounds more like the language of technicians. Das Booty!
Das Booty is right my friend, have you ever fallen in love with a German girl before? I think not.
 

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Irish is the hottest language. Just kidding.

I think Bosnian/Croatian/Serbian is pretty hot. French and Spanish are nice too. Watford accents make me want to vomit.
 

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Total A - Words of Affirmation: 3
Total B - Quality Time: 10
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 1
Total D - Acts of Service: 6
Total E - Physical Touch: 10

What can I say? Shut up, set the trinkets on fire, and give me a hummer... THAT is quality time.
 

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DrMetallica said:
I'm totally going to ignore the original post and post the 5 hottest languages:
Here too:
5) Italian
4) English ( BritishEnglish)
3) Russian
2) Korean
1) Japanese
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Total A - Words of Affirmation: 3
Total B - Quality Time: 11
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 1
Total D - Acts of Service: 7
Total E - Physical Touch: 8

Quality time can mean many things.
 

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Interesting seeing some patterns here, even though these online tests don't really prove anything. For the most part, most of you don't give a damn about gifts. Affirmation is pretty low across the board too.

The reason why I'm lacking in physical touch is because kissing lost its meaning for me. When you realize how many women will make out with a guy they barely know, it REALLY loses its appeal. That also explains why my "Acts Of Service" is higher. Kissing is meaningless, so show me that you're attracted to me in other ways.
 

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Total A - Words of Affirmation: 5
Total B - Quality Time: 8
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 4
Total D - Acts of Service: 2
Total E - Physical Touch: 11
 

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I never subscribe to on-line tests. But just for fun and giggles (and for debate sake), I will talk about mine.


Total A - Words of Affirmation:7
Total B - Quality Time: 10
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 1
Total D - Acts of Service: 7
Total E - Physical Touch: 5


Okay…Quality Time is a no-brainer for me.

Receiving gifts is something that I never cared about (although, I must admit that it feels great when I receive a little one from time to time for no particular reason).

Acts of service are always nice. A woman (other than your wife) that washes your clothes and cleans your house is a woman that TRULY cares for you.

Physical touch? My experience is that the women that find me attractive and end up involved with me…tend to touch me a LOT. They love to either touch me or play with my hair or whatever. And it feels good.

“Words of Affirmation” (and for that matter LACK OF)… personally, I’m under the “actions means more than words” philosophy. However, we all know that for women, “words of affirmation” are very important. They NEED to hear the “I love you”…they NEED to hear the “I miss you”…they NEED to hear the “you are beautiful”…they need to hear those things from time to time. Especially if you are in a long term relationship or a marriage. Now, because they need that from the man they care about…they also like to say them. So my point is, if a woman fails to do what’s natural to her (e.g. give/receive words of affirmation), then something is probably going wrong. That’s why they are important to me. They have no effect (I don’t care much what others think or feel about me). But they keep me aware of what’s going on in her mind or of some obvious signals (straying...losing attraction/"love"...wandering around...etc.). I know...I know...I'm thinking like a manipulator or a player or somebody that is always in the alert. But that's life! Just because a person gets married...does not translate into dropping his guard.
 

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Total A - Words of Affirmation: 7
Total B - Quality Time: 7
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 0
Total D - Acts of Service: 5
Total E - Physical Touch: 11

Fun test, sort of limiting in some ways, but still interesting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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