"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the first time

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ok so most of the guys on here arent virgins, so you can answer this question.

were you nervous the first time, or did you think fvck it, and just do it?

and also, was it with someone you'd known for a while, and did you see them again afterwards, or just a one night thing?

im 19 and still not had sex (got oral once), ive had one or two opportunities, but my mind always gets in the way and works against me. probably stemming from poor self image or something.

im quite a good looking guy but i only weigh 8 stone.. and im conscious of this, probs cos i used to get bullied for it quite a bit at school. however i can cover it with a confident attitude, and women never know that im concsious of it. ive just said before that i didnt wanna do anything that night. i just didnt wanna screw it up.

do woman really care if you're sh1t the first time?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you are conscious of your weight then go work out and put on a little mass. Just eat like crazy.

As for the girls caring if you suck - It doesn't really matter. If it's a one night stand then you'll be done with her after that night anyway and if it's during a relationship most girls will understand because you are a virgin. Just go find a chick and nail her - Enjoy your first time and have fun.

Just relax and don't worry about it. It's not as scary as you might think. ;)
 
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First i was nerous, then thought fck it got to be a man about this. When it was over i was like oh sh!t that felt amazing.

The girl was not amused at all.
I laugh about now. It wasn't that bad.
 
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My first time was crazy.

It was the older sister of the girl I was dating.

She was 19 and home from college, I really wasnt nervous, but you can tell it want girls first time, and I was younger than her. I busted in about 2 minutes, but stayed hard and gave it to her good for about 40 minutes in round 2.

Her sister never found out and I ended up just getting head from my girl about 2 weeks later.
 
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For some reason I was very sexually confident about it and ate her out and did her doggystyle etc.

It was a one night stand with a chick I met at a club.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Okay here're a few tips:

think yourself as a pleasure machine...

while making love ...pay attention to details...more than just the penetration and banging her....

kiss a lot

tease her a lot...loads of foreplay...use objects feathers etc...

talk a lot..laugh a lot...fluff talk her while having sex with her...

during sex...if she says *** now...don't ***...try to hold it....

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I was nervous. I didn't want to get her pregnant nor did I want to get a disease. It was pretty much a one night stand that didn't go over so well.
 
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