the first time

[randalll]

ok so most of the guys on here arent virgins, so you can answer this question.

were you nervous the first time, or did you think fvck it, and just do it?

and also, was it with someone you'd known for a while, and did you see them again afterwards, or just a one night thing?

im 19 and still not had sex (got oral once), ive had one or two opportunities, but my mind always gets in the way and works against me. probably stemming from poor self image or something.

im quite a good looking guy but i only weigh 8 stone.. and im conscious of this, probs cos i used to get bullied for it quite a bit at school. however i can cover it with a confident attitude, and women never know that im concsious of it. ive just said before that i didnt wanna do anything that night. i just didnt wanna screw it up.

do woman really care if you're sh1t the first time?

 

[MCristo]

If you are conscious of your weight then go work out and put on a little mass. Just eat like crazy.

As for the girls caring if you suck - It doesn't really matter. If it's a one night stand then you'll be done with her after that night anyway and if it's during a relationship most girls will understand because you are a virgin. Just go find a chick and nail her - Enjoy your first time and have fun.

Just relax and don't worry about it. It's not as scary as you might think.

 

[ZenGodMod]

First i was nerous, then thought fck it got to be a man about this. When it was over i was like oh sh!t that felt amazing.

The girl was not amused at all.
I laugh about now. It wasn't that bad.

 

[ShortyMac]

My first time was crazy.

It was the older sister of the girl I was dating.

She was 19 and home from college, I really wasnt nervous, but you can tell it want girls first time, and I was younger than her. I busted in about 2 minutes, but stayed hard and gave it to her good for about 40 minutes in round 2.

Her sister never found out and I ended up just getting head from my girl about 2 weeks later.

 

[ChrizZ]

For some reason I was very sexually confident about it and ate her out and did her doggystyle etc.

It was a one night stand with a chick I met at a club.

 

[sherineo]

Okay here're a few tips:

think yourself as a pleasure machine...

while making love ...pay attention to details...more than just the penetration and banging her....

kiss a lot

tease her a lot...loads of foreplay...use objects feathers etc...

talk a lot..laugh a lot...fluff talk her while having sex with her...

during sex...if she says *** now...don't ***...try to hold it....

sherineo

 

[Juan_Man]

I was nervous. I didn't want to get her pregnant nor did I want to get a disease. It was pretty much a one night stand that didn't go over so well.