"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The first move??

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Confident1

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Ok, really so making the first move is actually never harder than it always seems to be, you just lean in... but my problem is the move before the first move.

How does one isolate the girl? I mean if I am at a party at a friend's house, or a bar: the whole "wanna go on a walk" line is just that, a line.

Is there a better way to get alone with a girl?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Wouldnt anything you say to isolate a girl be technically considered a line? Go outside and get fresh air, tell her its too loud where ever you are, grab her hand and lead her some place else. Either way, shell probably know whats up and if shes down shell go.
 
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Just say "follow me" and then grab her hand and lead her to an isolated spot. Continue the conversation and make your moves.
 
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