"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The first move??

Confident1

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Ok, really so making the first move is actually never harder than it always seems to be, you just lean in... but my problem is the move before the first move.

How does one isolate the girl? I mean if I am at a party at a friend's house, or a bar: the whole "wanna go on a walk" line is just that, a line.

Is there a better way to get alone with a girl?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Wouldnt anything you say to isolate a girl be technically considered a line? Go outside and get fresh air, tell her its too loud where ever you are, grab her hand and lead her some place else. Either way, shell probably know whats up and if shes down shell go.
 

immrtlwun

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Just say "follow me" and then grab her hand and lead her to an isolated spot. Continue the conversation and make your moves.
 
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