"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The First Date

nc4444

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Hey everyone.
So I went on a date with a very nice girl last night. It went well. She was shy for most of it, but I eventually got her to open up a little and, we had a fun time. Towards the end of the night, we sat and laughed for a while, and i really got to know her. The moment came for a kiss, but that is where things went wrong.
We were both giving the signs, and I built up enough courage, and we kissed. It was at that moment that I realized i was a terrible kisser. It was a great feeling kissing her, but in the back of my head i had i was constantly saying, "man I'm really ****in' this up..." and after the kiss I told her I wasn't good, and she kind of said it as well. So I was really nervous, and she could even tell. She told me to just relax, and I tried. The whole thing became awkward.
So we left, and i drove her home. I walked her to her door, and we did kiss again. This time a little better. So i say goodnight and I drive home.

So now I feel completely embarrassed. I haven't called her today, and i want to hang out with her again. All of today I've told myself, she doesn't like me, she doesn't like me, but I constantly remind myself, If she is no longer interested in me because of how I kiss, shes not worth it...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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New2Town

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Just make sure the next time you see her, you show her your donkey dong. Either that, or you learn how to kiss better.
 

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nc4444 said:
Hey everyone.
She was shy for most of it, but I eventually got her to open up a little and, we had a fun time..
Sorry but that really cracked me up, that can be sooo misinterpreted.

Anyways. Its really hard to give any advice before you've talked to her again. Now, either she likes you and she is FLIPPING out about the fact that you havent called her yet, or she thought it went bad and doesnt really want to see you.

But honestly I think its the first one. No woman would be scared away by that. My personal advice is to give her a call, nothing long but just talk to her for 5 minutes so things aren't awkward.

EDIT: also, read some guides on kissing and practice with you friends... Like a real man of course.
 

Gustav Yavo

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lol, u just happened to realize you were a lousy kisser right before you kissed her? just play it cool man, next time you see her, don't mention anything about the Sh!tty kiss you gave her last time. But make sure when you go in the next time you know what your doing. You better go out there and practice my man, read some articles and make sure to keep your hands moving when your making out.

How was the kiss crappy tho? too wide mouthed? to sloppy? too rough? to soft? (although soft kisses could be fun if done right)
 
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