"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The first date was awesome... about the second one?

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So, I've had many successful first dates, including one last night. :) The IL is high, the kino was flirty, and we had a blast. But, this isn't the first time the first date has gone so well. I'm curious to know a little bit about the second date as it seems I always screw something up the second time around.

Anyone have any general tips... the phone call after the first date, date ideas and anything else I should be aware of? Action dates always seem to be a good choice the second time around, at least that's what I've read on here.

Anyway, some second date rules I should keep in mind would be.... ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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COD

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Stop over thinking.............do a cool date.....if its warm enough goto the beach.....quickest way to see her in a two piece......rub oil, check out other women, etc. Then U invite her over for some dinner.........heck you already practicly half naked......and so is she!!

Phone............just say "hey, it's your future ex-boy toy.......calling 4 my token romance date.

Second dates are for KINO & ESCALATIONS..........depending on which type of chic you got (see article on types) you can go for it or build the tension further by making a third date.

The sex is going to require a location.......cooking dinner works wonders or I guess u can cheap out and do "watching a DVD".
 

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I think the point of the plan was to get her back to your place ;) so picnic no no unless you like the alfresco buzz?
 
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