"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The first date 30-minute call

bluenorther

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How many of you have been on a first date and she got a phone call right at thirty minutes?
What do you tell her?:rolleyes:
After that happened to me the second time, I realized it was pre-planned... her roommate/landlady/sister was ready with an excuse to call it a night if things weren't going to her satisfaction.
To my credit, I suppose, they both stuck around after getting "the call".
That was before every frikkin broad had a cell phone in her hand 24/7, so I'm sure it happens a lot more now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You fvcking tell her what she wants to hear. That's a women letting you know her high interest. You soothe her hamster.

Do not play any games. Do not be indifferent. Do not be an assho|e. Now matter what all these guys are telling you.

EDIT:

Misread the original post. It may be a coincidence or it might not be. Women these days are weary of who they meet. I can put my money that you met this chick online. Otherwise, these situations wouldn't come into question. My question for you is -

Why does this bother you?
 
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Zarky

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This hasn't happened to me since I was in my early 20s. It happened to me a few times. One even called MY house line (this was back before cell phones were as common) to check on her friend.

Here's what I did, it worked wonders each time. I let them talk for a minute or so, let the friend make sure my girl was ok, and then I gently took the phone out of the girl's hand and said into it, "She's having a great time and I'm sure she'll love to tell you all about it tomorrow." And then I hung up.

Each time the girl I was with had absolutely no problem with it and as far as I recall we had sex each time. YMMV with it but it worked for me. At my age now, and the age of the women I date (30+), that really doesn't happen.
 
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