Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Fingz Tour 2005

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Julian
Yo check out The 5th Element in Minneapolis. Owned by one of the dudes from Atmosphere. Its like a record/hiphop music store. They carry underground sh1t.
Speaking of Minneapolis, check out the club First Avenue http://www.first-avenue.com/index.htm (yeah, it's the one from Purple Rain). They've had new DJ night and CD release parties. Try emailing this guy for more info.

[email protected]

I think he works with special events.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey Fingz!

Are you still doing your tour thing? Cause if you are, I know some people here in Brazil!
 

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i live down here in the panhandle of florida near destin which has a huge nightlife and club scene. We have nationally known artists performing nearly every week down here and i have a great connection with the radio station because my buddy works on the air and he can usually get me free tickets to all the shows so if you are ever down this way i might be able to help you out.
 
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you got a Myspace? that helps out.

I'll definately email you, I'm hellbent on pursuing a career in music and I really need to make some contacts and networks within the industry to get me surrounded by people who are actually hard working artists and not just in it for some other dumb founded purpose.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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