The FIELD aka THE REAL WORLD

[coolwater]

I think close to 100% of guys on this forum spend WAY too much time reading and not enough time socialising. At WORST, you should spend twice as long in the field as you do reading stuff about PU. A good ratio is 5:1.

Go out clubbing 4/5/6 nights a week if you don't have commitments in other areas. Work in the morning is no problem, just get to bed before 12:30AM most nights, and take a nap after work if you can tear yourself away from the "DJ bible". If you're not working, play day game too. Persist on your numbers like a mother****er and try to get as cool as possible.

Your social skills will skyrocket and within 2 years you'll go from complete loser to good. If you're already a cool guy, it'll take less.

"4 nights a week, 4 hours a night, 12 sets a night".

If you're in Perth, AU and want to meet up, email me at coolwater@auseduction.com

coolwater

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Should be 100:1

By the way are you a bogan? I heard Perth has lots of them.

 

[squirrels]

"Sets"?? LOL...sometimes this ASF lingo really cracks me up.

Although the basic premise is correct...none of the stuff in the DJ Bible will make a difference if you don't go out and apply it. You DO learn a lot by actually just going out and TALKING to people/women.

 

[High Voltage]

I can't speak for the rest of you, but I know I would get *very* bored if I went out that much, even if I was scoring pvssy every time. Girls can be a fun addition, but not worth devoting that much time to in my opinion.

I understand the basic message of your post, but to follow such an intensive schedule hints at an obsession rather than what it should be - a hobby. There is so much more to life.

- HV

 

[thefonz]

Hats off to HV for the post, with school and work there is NO way i'm going clubbing 4-5 days a week, that is an obsession......i attempt to socialize on down time ie. inbetween appointments

 

[Wiesman44]

so your assuming our life should be composed of getting women ? C'mon man, 4 nights a week at the club ? Hell, here in Ct, clubs arent' even open on mondays and tuesdays....well most of them. I go to college, and dont need to hit the club every night. But, when i graduate next year, Im sure ill be going to clubs a little more. But, def. not when I have to wake up at 7:00 in the mornig n.

 

[Eternal]

How does this apply to guys with girlfriends?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

some people approch 30 sets in a week, that is impresive. Asuming we are defining sets as the same thing, i would apprcoh less then 10 a week

 

[coolwater]

I don't see how going out 4 nights a week is an "obsession". 7 yes (LOL I admit I'm obsessed), but 4? This is what it takes to get GOOD.

It rarely gets boring if you're getting results from it. I find it EXCITING to the extreme.

coolwater

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Approaching 10 women a week is an obsession imo.I just approach the girls I like.

 

[coolwater]

LOL man if 10 is an obsession, lock me away!!!

10 is terrible IMO.. but hey thats me. We probably have way different lifestyles.

 

[MRomeo99]

I have to say, if you're obsessed with approaching 30 women a week, then every other aspect of your game, and IMHO the most important parts are going to be weak.

What is the point of being a DJ? Is it just being able to approach any woman you like? What about the next steps? Going out doing fun things, getting laid, relationships if that's your thing? How are you going to get good at any of the rest of it? What is your goal?

And realistically you cannot do this consistently. If you approached 12 women a night at a club, within a few short months you will have talked to 80% of the women that frequent that club. Then what? Clubs get stale pretty quickly(meaning you've worked the obvious targets)

I mean are you doing approaches, just to do approaches, or do you actually have some sort of goal? I approach very little, but I have a very high success rate. I get the digits, I get the "dates", I get the *****. If I approached 30 women, that would be it for the next month or two, I would probably end up with about 10 that I was seeing in one way or another. For me, approaches mean nothing, getting what I want means everything. And what I want has very little to do with approaching, but everything to do with what would be fun to do with this girl. Although I will admit that it is good for your ego to be "working" so many girls at the same time, in the long run, I think quality is better than quantity. I would rather have 4-5 girls that are cool for different activities. And it really just doesn't take that many approaches to get that done if you're doing well on the approaches.

So, ask yourself Coolwater, and others who think 30+ approaches is a "good idea". What is it that you want? And what are you trying to accomplish? And what do you feel your are getting GOOD at by going to clubs 4 nights a week?

 

[Jariel]

Approaching 10 women a week is an obsession imo.I just approach the girls I like.

I agree. If I like a girl and she's giving me signals, I approach. Otherwise I get on with my life.

 

[PatZull]

You guys don't get the main idea. In order to become good at something you should commit yourself to it. Let's not delude ourselves by trying to detach ourselves from girls and act disinterested. This is self-destructive, although it's proclaimed all over the DJ Bible. It is, of course, far different from infatuation. In order to improve you must obsess yourself for something, even if it's for a short period of time.

And that doesn't mean going to the same club every night. There are different places, different situations, different girls, but if you don't take drastic measures to act now, you'll be the same old you. PERIOD!

 

[strong like bull]

You guys don't get the main idea. In order to become good at something you should commit yourself to it. Let's not delude ourselves by trying to detach ourselves from girls and act disinterested. This is self-destructive, although it's proclaimed all over the DJ Bible. It is, of course, far different from infatuation. In order to improve you must obsess yourself for something, even if it's for a short period of time.


to become good at PUA... or become good in life? the latter is more important to some than others. women will always be around; they arent going anywhere. plus, theyre still attracted to successful/powerful/manly men, just as theyve been since creation. if youre driven by your life passions, in touch with your manhood and capable of holding basic conversation, its not hard to attract women. surely you would agree.

but hey, by all means, if you WANT to be a master PUA or perhaps make a sport of pickups/lays, thats great too. but for those whod rather have LTRs, or at least focus on their own lives... is it really necessary to become infatuated and obsessed with seduction? if youve got the personal success, power, manliness, etc and have respect for yourself, you wont be bull****ted by women. your sense of self will protect your heart from THEIR games. why waste so much time on them, when you could be spending that time improving yourself?

i agree with the original poster in that way too many people focus on the boards, the bible and how others live their life. i agree that itd be better to log off for a while... but i think most would be better off investing that free time into their careers and personal dreams. let your fortune 500 company, your dozen real estate properties, or perhaps your hot new dance club define your success - not how many women you can sleep with in a week.

-SLB

 

[coolwater]

Guys,

I just want to **** the hot girls I see, whether or not she's "giving me the signals" or whatever. I want to be the chooser. I want to point to the girl and I say "I want HER" and go and get her. You're overcomplicating it.

coolwater

 

[Julian]

who the hell wants to go clubbing 5 nights a week. gimme a gotdamn break.

 

[AETude]

cool water does, lol 2 nights a week friday, saturday is too much for me. since staying up all night.. ppfftt

 

[So Many Ways]

I like fuzzx's analogy. It's on point.

I do understand cool water's point. I know for me and for a lot of guys, going out 4 nights a week is literally impossible. However it is possible to flirt with the cutie that sits next to you in your history class. It is possible to flirt with the cashier at your local supermarket or flirt with the waitress at your local diner or the girl you see at the gym every day.

My point is, is that (warning, I'm going off on a tangent) get out there and put in work, make an effort and post it here. Post your field reports here. Very few people post field reports, that needs to change. I learn from other's field reports and from the critiques of stuff I post. Regardless of what happens, even if you get blown off royally by a girl you talk to or even if a date falls to complete sh!t, post about it Heads here can learn from your experience and you will too. Listen to what the older heads have to say, they know their sh!t.

Let me hop off my soapbox here. With that said, I promise you guys here that I'll make more of an effort to talk and interact with more women and post about it here.

This is 2005, year of the hustler baby! It's time to come up in all ways.