She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have to wonder if MGTOW has Made them rethink a few things. I have no factual evidence of this. Just wondering because MGTOW is growing and women are noticing.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good point, the countries that are the most oppressive to females demand that they cover themselves up completely. Bra burning was a feminist means of protest. I recall some women object that men are able to take their shirt off in public but women aren't.
MGTOW can still dip in pvzzy too... Mans priorities will be first and he will not compromise or disrespect him self behind pvzzy.
Bro, supposedly a law going in that lets them bare the boobs in public...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This^ is Exactly right.... I am a MGTOW who still gets his duck in the mud. So many think MGTOW is only about extreme monk. At one end, it is... But to the other end where LL is...... MGTOW is about guys like me who know what is going on but can still get their ducks in the mud.. But first and foremost, we know enough about women, from experience, to know that our reputations and assests must be protected at all costs.. Over any wet ducks or anything...
