"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Feminization of Men

PackDaddy

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Hey guys, I don't really use this site anymore. But I want to share something insidious i have noticed with everyone on sosuave.

I have figured out why so many men are struggling with women. And it's because our society has become feminized. Think about it... The parents divorce and the women gets the kids in most cases. Who's bright idea was it to allow a woman to raise a boy?! This is the problem men. Society has tried to castrate you, and tell you to be more sensitive. My initial reaction to this was becoming a misogynist. After a little while though, I realized this was pointless. By assuming my manhood my problems with women have begun simmer down. The only issues I have now are when women think they can challenge me.

My proposal for everyone on this site is to think about this. If everyone on this site acted more like men, I guarantee you this site wouldn't be necessary anymore. Don't hate women, but be gentlemen - holding the door open doesn't mean you're submitting. It shows the more powerful sex accommodating for the weaker; that very act acknowledges your power as a man.

On a last note. Stop caring about what people think. Don't worry about offending people. For God's sake if a woman is being a ***** don't be afraid to call her a cu#t. For f$ck's sake don't be afraid to crack a racy joke every now and then. Don't be afraid to tell someone off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheException

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My proposal for everyone on this site is to think about this. If everyone on this site acted more like men, I guarantee you this site wouldn't be necessary anymore.

Some of us act like men already and just decide to help others. Not all of us post 45 threads about the same woman.

Now you think about this.....without the existence of sosuave...how many men would still be frolicking around the world as a beta chump unaware of their pathetic actions? How many would still think romantic comedies are based on true stories? How many would still be begging for their high school gf back? How many would get cheated on by a wife.....and still take her back? Sosuave has its uses...others need it more than others.
 

Sneevox

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TheException said:
My proposal for everyone on this site is to think about this. If everyone on this site acted more like men, I guarantee you this site wouldn't be necessary anymore.

Some of us act like men already and just decide to help others. Not all of us post 45 threads about the same woman.

Now you think about this.....without the existence of sosuave...how many men would still be frolicking around the world as a beta chump unaware of their pathetic actions? How many would still think romantic comedies are based on true stories? How many would still be begging for their high school gf back? How many would get cheated on by a wife.....and still take her back? Sosuave has its uses...others need it more than others.
Fvck romantic comedies.
I think they were initially created by daydreaming betas wanting their highschool girlfriend back.
 

zekko

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I agree that feminization of men is a big part of the problem. But I think it there will always be a fairly significant segment of the male population that struggles with women. It's just the nature of the beast. As long as women are the choosers and hypergamous, they are going to be wanting the best available man they can get.

The guys on the lower end of the Sexual Market Value scale are always going to have more trouble than the average guy. Unfortunately a lot of young men will fit into these categories because they are still in the process of building their value. And these young guys are probably the ones "hurting" the most to get their sexual needs fulfilled.

On the other hand, if you get to be an older guy without building any value, you're kind of screwed. But it's like anything else, I guess, it's never too late to start.
 
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