"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Female Matrix?

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This is a general & abstract topic - feel free not to reply if you have better things to do. (I sure do most of the time - not used this forum for AGES!)

Something I've read about a lot here is regarding the feminisation of society - with the gushy, effeminate "hollywood man" approach to romance portrayed as the ideal, the concept of love reduced to some parody of itself where a man lives on his knees to ingratiate himself with his one-and-only-shot-at-happiness who is worthy of his adoration by virtue of her being female.

Right now, we are able to choose a different path, re-educate ourselves and improve our success with women. Generally, the reason given for this is that masculine behaviour is natural for men, and that feminine behaviour is natural for women, and that men and women who act according to their nature are powerfully attracted to one another.

The idea that scares me is that which created our problem in the first way.

If men can (and in many sad cases have been) be conditioned by society to deny their natural impulses and become effeminate, can women not also be conditioned to deny their natural impulses and respond to cheerleeding, tight-wearing AFCs :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: with attraction?

If for arguments sake, this happened on a large enough scale - behaving in masculine ways might well empower us and grant us success in many other spheres, but wouldn't it mean that we were disadvantaged where attracting women were concerned?

If that ever happened I've got a feeling many "DJs" here would be falling over themselves to demonstrate AFC behaviour. Which leads me to another separate question - if acting like an AFC got you more women - would you do it?

Is there or can there in the future exist a female matrix that creates women who adore (get wet for) AFCs? Penny for your thoughts...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think it just boils down to the fact that most of Americans, Aussies and Britts have no intellectual substance and it’s very hard to relate to them on anything other than what they see on TV and in magazines. What they see on TV had such a detrimental effect on them so it is very possible that in a decade or so women well become attracted to AFC's. TV is showering us every day with the false notion of the nice guy getting the hot girl and the DJ ending up lonely, in T.V land this is true and people are slowly getting brainwashed.

If I were a conspiracy theorist I would say that T.V is a government tool of oppression, used to keep the slave laborers (working class Aus/US/UK) working and paying taxes so the government can become rich.

We had the rise of the “metrosexual” not to long ago and now as a social balancing act we are getting the rise of the female equivalent (women who take on male habits and attributes). It’s not unfathomable that in a few decades or even a few years there will be a complete gender reversal.

I know I say this in just about every post but if you go to Europe they don’t have this problem.
 

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I don't think you have to worry. It's deep in their nature/genetic code to get 'wet' for a masculine man. If you think about it, gets better for the masculine male. As there become less masculine males, more females will be looking to be with him. Maybe this is why in the future, the AFC guy will get cheated on even more, because she is following what she knows will be the best sexual experience for her, and that would be with a masculine male.

It's happening alot already, women are becoming more fickle, dumping their guy for someone more masculine if he should come along, which is becoming less and less in today's more feminized society.
 
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