"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Female Matrix?

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This is a general & abstract topic - feel free not to reply if you have better things to do. (I sure do most of the time - not used this forum for AGES!)

Something I've read about a lot here is regarding the feminisation of society - with the gushy, effeminate "hollywood man" approach to romance portrayed as the ideal, the concept of love reduced to some parody of itself where a man lives on his knees to ingratiate himself with his one-and-only-shot-at-happiness who is worthy of his adoration by virtue of her being female.

Right now, we are able to choose a different path, re-educate ourselves and improve our success with women. Generally, the reason given for this is that masculine behaviour is natural for men, and that feminine behaviour is natural for women, and that men and women who act according to their nature are powerfully attracted to one another.

The idea that scares me is that which created our problem in the first way.

If men can (and in many sad cases have been) be conditioned by society to deny their natural impulses and become effeminate, can women not also be conditioned to deny their natural impulses and respond to cheerleeding, tight-wearing AFCs :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: with attraction?

If for arguments sake, this happened on a large enough scale - behaving in masculine ways might well empower us and grant us success in many other spheres, but wouldn't it mean that we were disadvantaged where attracting women were concerned?

If that ever happened I've got a feeling many "DJs" here would be falling over themselves to demonstrate AFC behaviour. Which leads me to another separate question - if acting like an AFC got you more women - would you do it?

Is there or can there in the future exist a female matrix that creates women who adore (get wet for) AFCs? Penny for your thoughts...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AngelusPUA

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I think it just boils down to the fact that most of Americans, Aussies and Britts have no intellectual substance and it’s very hard to relate to them on anything other than what they see on TV and in magazines. What they see on TV had such a detrimental effect on them so it is very possible that in a decade or so women well become attracted to AFC's. TV is showering us every day with the false notion of the nice guy getting the hot girl and the DJ ending up lonely, in T.V land this is true and people are slowly getting brainwashed.

If I were a conspiracy theorist I would say that T.V is a government tool of oppression, used to keep the slave laborers (working class Aus/US/UK) working and paying taxes so the government can become rich.

We had the rise of the “metrosexual” not to long ago and now as a social balancing act we are getting the rise of the female equivalent (women who take on male habits and attributes). It’s not unfathomable that in a few decades or even a few years there will be a complete gender reversal.

I know I say this in just about every post but if you go to Europe they don’t have this problem.
 

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I don't think you have to worry. It's deep in their nature/genetic code to get 'wet' for a masculine man. If you think about it, gets better for the masculine male. As there become less masculine males, more females will be looking to be with him. Maybe this is why in the future, the AFC guy will get cheated on even more, because she is following what she knows will be the best sexual experience for her, and that would be with a masculine male.

It's happening alot already, women are becoming more fickle, dumping their guy for someone more masculine if he should come along, which is becoming less and less in today's more feminized society.
 
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