"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the fear of telephoning

ALPHAROMEO

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A woman ll never call you
it s up to you to call !!! ater all it s you who wxho generated the whole process
based on years of experience a woman doesn t call


PHONE ANXIETY
again ZIG ZIGLAR RECOMMENDS YOU SHOULD A TIME TO CALL EVERYDAY you gotta to choose a time let s say 11 AM

Imagine you have to call 5 women
what you do is CHUNKING You force yourself to call 2 WHATEVER!!!
Then when you have called the two you can quit for the day in a happy disposition you ve reached your goal !!! of course you can choose to call another one but YOU DON T HAVE TO ( re ZIGLAR ON SELLING )

it s the way ZIGLAR busted his fear of calling

CHECK OUT ZIGLAR , TAMMY STANLEY and DIRK ZELLER on GOOGLE
ZELLER deals with the fear of telephoning your prospects ( very insightful article

in a nutshell you don t call you don t score
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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J. Darko

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Calling is scary. The telephone eats you alive and uses your bones as a toothpick.
 

Chosen1

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J. Darko said:
Calling is scary. The telephone eats you alive and uses your bones as a toothpick.
I just call if a girl gives you her # that's a good sign I don't leave voice messages and have lived buy that tenant for years. The way to get over whatever fear you have it to imagine that sexy ass voice that is going to be on the other end and think of the freaky things you goona say :up:
 
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