The Fatherly Theory

[The Bartender]

Ok I re-re-rewrote this and cant seem to make it sound right. So I will extremely simplify it for my own sake and others please feel free to elaborate.

The Fatherly Theory - Being a father figure to your current target will create a sense of confidence on your part, and security/protection/comfort on her part.

Little things like kissing her on her head, telling her everything will be okay, and the best... telling her what to do and always having a plan will help you land her. I can't stress that last part enough. Daddies always know best. So know it!

I've somewhat been self-developing this theory alongside the practice of other DJ techniques and it has done exceptionally well. (Scored four new one's since the beginning stages of development). Now, drop this theory during physical moments obviously.

EXTRA TIP for the beginner DJ's out there: If you have trouble approaching women, apply this father figure attitude to the approach. Initiating the first stages of Keno can also be mirrored by where her dad would touch her. She wont reject you if she lets her father touch there (shoulder, back, you know...)

Now dont make the mistake of doing some fatherly things like spoiling her, being overprotective...blah you get the point. Dont be the AFC side of dad.

Anyone care to elaborate please do

 

[themanwithnoname]

your theory is flawed since a lot of people grow up with different parents.

 

[The Bartender]

Originally posted by themanwithnoname
your theory is flawed since a lot of people grow up with different parents.

I know that...think outside the box. Generally speaking kiddo.

 

[flyinshark]

I heard that women unconsciously seek a man that resembles their own dad. Both physically and mentally. (and men seek women that resemble their own mom)

I mean, for you guys that have or had girlfriends, look at their pictures and compare with your moms. Do you see similarities? Same eyes maybe? Same type/color of hair? How about psychological traits?

If all i mentioned is true, then acting like a dad with a woman could potentially work. However, i am afraid that she might take it as being too friendly or as you being afraid to pull a more MANLY move on her, resulting in failure from your part.

 

[JT47319]

It works to a certain degree.

What you're simply doing is taking control of the situation and her frame.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by flyinshark
I heard that women unconsciously seek a man that resembles their own dad. Both physically and mentally. (and men seek women that resemble their own mom)

This theory ignores inter-racial couples, which are quite common these days.

 

[The Bartender]

Originally posted by flyinshark
i am afraid that she might take it as being too friendly or as you being afraid to pull a more MANLY move on her, resulting in failure from your part.

You have to recognize when to put the father figure aside and make a move. This theory isnt to actually be a father, so yes, grow balls, dont get into a friend mode. You can avoid that by being ****y at times and powerful at others. Friends are rarely mirroring father figures imo.

 

[The Bartender]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
This theory ignores inter-racial couples, which are quite common these days.

Thats why it is a theory. They are unproven and usually have exceptions and loopholes. Dont confuse this with law which is straightforward one or the other.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
This theory ignores inter-racial couples, which are quite common these days.

moreso than before but still not that common atleast where I live

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Where the heck do you live??

 

[thefonz]

pretty common round here.....i'm the product of some jungle fever

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

So, jungle fever, do you date white or black girls??

 

[The Bartender]

On topic please...

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Sorry..... Just wondering..

 

[ScrewIt]

maybe.

basically a girl likes a guy that can take command and lead her. Showing he knows what he's doing. and he's certain about the results of his actions.

basically this is a preconception of whether this male would be an ideal candidate for being a good father and husband in the future.
Everything that you do that's correct leads up to it. Under certain circumstances, some things you mess up at or lack will be your downfall...e.g. financially stable (provider).

I think once you hit a trigger in the girls mind, she will undoubtedly feel attraction towards you.