"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Father of all inner game

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I have finished this book now and want to recommend it to you. It is a very liberating book.

James Hollis: Under Saturn's Shadow: The Wounding and Healing of Men


Like All of his books, this one aims straight for the heart in a poetic and non clinical language everyone can understand. This is one of the few books it seems avalible on masculine psychology that I continually refer to and recommend. Mr. Hollis has a very clear and deep understanding of the basic problems many of us encounter on our journey towards a well considered life. I have found most of his books packed with experience and insight and along with this book I particularly liked "The Eden Project: In Search of the Magical other." as well.Taken together these two books have offered me so much understanding and real hope.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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