"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Father of all inner game

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I have finished this book now and want to recommend it to you. It is a very liberating book.

James Hollis: Under Saturn's Shadow: The Wounding and Healing of Men


Like All of his books, this one aims straight for the heart in a poetic and non clinical language everyone can understand. This is one of the few books it seems avalible on masculine psychology that I continually refer to and recommend. Mr. Hollis has a very clear and deep understanding of the basic problems many of us encounter on our journey towards a well considered life. I have found most of his books packed with experience and insight and along with this book I particularly liked "The Eden Project: In Search of the Magical other." as well.Taken together these two books have offered me so much understanding and real hope.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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