"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The fat chick played a huge role in success last night

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So we were all going to Dave and Busters. I text this girl earlier that day that I've been working on. Told her I was going there and she should show up. She shows up with her 2 friends. I don't even recognize her because she didn't have her glasses on but she looked pretty HB9 last night.

Anyway this HB7 and her big fat friend are talkin to me while I'm at the trivia game. I told her I lost my card so the HB7 gives me a swipe of hers and she wanted to fold my tickets for some reason. I realized that there was some IOI's she was showing me and my 3 friends so I kept it on the backburner while I went to the bar and talked to my HB9. The HB7 and the Big Fat friend end up mentioning something about weed, which gets rid of my 2 friends. Leaves me and one friend, talkin to HB9 and her 2 friends. My 1 friend is an AFC so I told him to go hold the air hockey table for us and we'd be there in a minute. He comes back 10 minutes later realizing we wouldn't be playing air hockey so I sent him outside to look for my friends who went to smoke weed in the HB7's car with the Big Fat friend HBzero

I worked so much game on this HB9 and was able to because the Big Fat b!tch went and smoked a blunt with my friends and my friends weren't hangin around the bar trying to hit on HB9's friends. So I was like talkin' about sex and her tits and she was showin some IOI but then her driver had to go so she walked her out. I didn't walk her out I just stayed at the bar and drank my water that richie the bartender hooked me up with.

Anyway I eventually go out to the parking lot, looking for a car full of smoke. Eventually find it and low and behold HB7 and HBzero the fatty are in the front seats while my 2 friends are in the back stoned.

The big fat hoe tells us she's having a party on saturday at her house in medford so we should deff come. I give her the "i'll try and be there" while my stoned AFC friends say "omg yea deff be there". My friends said that the fat b!tch and HB7 had some other friends that were really hot who they were talkin to at the bar. So we'll use the fat hoe to network ourselves with some HB8's and above.

Sound good?

Also I'm lookin for some advice on how to close with this HB9. I've built a lot of rapport I guess, whatever the hell that is. Yea she has nice boobs we were talkin' about them and she works at Victoria Secret
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nivre

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I'm thinking it's okay..

But seriously, leave her and your friends out of this. Doesn't help you anyway since your friends are not dating her friends. And i mean it. Last thing you want to happen, is how your friends ends up telling her about your stories.

Judging by how it went, i'm not too sure if she is really attracted to you. Have you kinoed her? Made her feel comfortable with your actions? You gotta give us more details for us to work on, so we in return can help you.
 

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Sounds fine. Go to the party and fvck her!!! By, the way... Medford, Oregon?
 

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Honestly dude, you sound like a damn kid. How old are you?
 
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