The falls of texting. Advice?

[kraytkiller]

So I met this new girl at school and I ended up getting her number after chatting a bit on myspace and talking with texts for a good while. Now though, I can't help but feel that she's getting disinterested, as before it was a near constant stream of texting and now there's barely any, and when I do say something that would usually be funny, I get a unenthusiastic usually one word reply in return.

I think where I made my mistake was when I started texting too long, even when there wasn't really anything important to say. Should I just try to limit virtual communications as much as possible and instead work my game in real life?

 

[R1ch4rd]

I know I hate texting, seeming word only get out a tiny percentage of the message where saying. I limit them and cut back, and talk to her more in real life.

 

[Captain]

I think where I made my mistake was when I started texting too long, even when there wasn't really anything important to say.

Spot on.

Don't overdo anything. Keep them waiting. Calls are better in general.

 

[TheAnswer_]

Spot on.

Don't overdo anything. Keep them waiting. Calls are better in general.

yea I accidently did the same thing quite some time ago. Just call and don't text. Show her you are different and a true man

 

[James18]

Call the girl, get in her ear and her head with your voice. Don't blow up her phone with texts, not cool. How do you feel when some chick constantly texts you? You get disinterested because it's not a challenge for her attention.
Call her if she's interested- if you get a voicemail just leave a message saying "hey ____ it's ____, call me." That's it- no small talk or weak ****, just a command.

 

[Analyzeit]

txting......... just don't do it ae, many of my mates, they pua's aswell will say HELL NO im not gonna stop txting, and send there plans worth in the first week.

I don't do it myself at all really and i find they respect me more for it, just get that face time, face times is probably the best way you will ever pick up chicks in HS just do it as much as possible

Although do text a little, especially if you have something going on or they will find it is a bad sign, just get the right balance

Balance

Pretty much what being a dj is all about

 

[needstochange]

I've heard this many times and believe it's ture: Many people are using these different forms of communication through text, internet, etc. that they forget how to talk to people in person. Sure it may be easier to express what you say through writing and scriptures, but actually speaking to someone is better for the most part.

 

[Rhoto]

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