The Fall of the Don Juan

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

bbestar

Banned

Aug 18, 2005

Oxide I think you have no right or the credentials to say that the don juan has fallen...

I believe what you are is an old fashion afc who is frustrated with failure and wants to blame it on someone...

Instead of yourself, you blame a community, a group of people who are trying to help you become a better person.

I believe this is what alot people do with the bible, Jesus Christ and God, in real life.

I try not to hate people for shoving dirt in my face while I try to help them but... I try to be understanding and long suffering, people need time to think about what they are doing and sometimes need to be hit in the face and come back to reality.

Sometimes prayer is the only way

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.