"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

The Faces Behind the Username

Crissco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2009
Messages
1,396
Reaction score
118
Age
39
Location
New York
After a while you start to know whos posting what without reading there username because your so familiar with there posting style/personality. Im sure like everyone else you still wonder what that person looks like.

Comon SoSuave lets see what everyone looks like behind the username...
 
Last edited:

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Hydrak

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2013
Messages
174
Reaction score
12
Location
Sweden
OP, you ruined the thread by not setting an example and going first.
 

faeyt

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2013
Messages
44
Reaction score
0
Location
Ontario
He did post a picture but I guess he edited his post and removed it. :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Zarky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2010
Messages
3,213
Reaction score
89
Location
SoCal
For the record I saw the OP's (purported) real pic and he's not a bad looking dude. Far more "normal" looking than I thought anyone on this board could be.
 

Down Low

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2012
Messages
1,049
Reaction score
62
Location
Maryland
Crissco said:
Im sure like everyone else you still wonder what that person looks like.
Actually, no. I like to look at women, this is a men's forum, so I'm not interested in what the posters look like.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,426
Reaction score
5,803
Down Low said:
Actually, no. I like to look at women, this is a men's forum, so I'm not interested in what the posters look like.
I call bvllsh1t on this, I would pay few bucks to see how Burrough, Goundra and you look like.
 

GotED?

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2012
Messages
819
Reaction score
99
Location
The Viagra Pill you wish you had...- United Kingdo
If you are extremely good looking and got alpha sh!t testosterone running in your veins, would you be on this forum??

.......... Bueller.... anyone.... anyone.... anyone.....



(Of course men on here are going to be more fugly than good looking by pure logic and deduction)
 

PapiChulo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2010
Messages
1,283
Reaction score
61
Location
Canada, eh?
It would be easier if we could upload right in here, instead of a link.
 

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
PapiChulo said:
It would be easier if we could upload right in here, instead of a link.
Exactly. Maybe they could automate an upload to Photobucket, but some direct way.

One thing to remember about how people rate photos is that they are just rating that photo, not that person. I put a bunch of pictures of the same girl on Hot Or Not which ranged from 5.5 to 8.6, a range of 53%.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Deep Dish

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2002
Messages
2,191
Reaction score
175
[edited]
 

Crissco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2009
Messages
1,396
Reaction score
118
Age
39
Location
New York
Espi said:
LOL...the OP asks for photos of us but hasn't the wherewithal to post his own. Lame.

Anyway I'll get this party started but I'm not gonna provide a link. Go to match.com and enter my username: oneruggedgent.
I already posted a picture of me, I took it down because its bull no one is posting a real pic of them, like everyone has something to hide.

You really negged me for taking down my own pictture? Wow, hold old are you again here bro?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top