"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

The expendables 2: the ultimate alpha

D

Desire

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2005
Messages
98
Reaction score
5
Just saw the expendables 2. Sylvester is the ultimate alpha.

But when it comes to women he is omega. In the end of the movie her face screams "fvck me NOW!!" and all he do is say goodbye. He did that in the first movie too. What's up with that?

:crackup:

Funnie movie though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

G

georgie24

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2003
Messages
472
Reaction score
8
Age
51
those guys are just beta"s with attitude
 
Z

Zerro

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2011
Messages
570
Reaction score
24
georgie24 said:
those guys are just beta"s with attitude
Click to expand...
Lee Christmas is for sure, Barney seems to think he's cursed when it comes to women, we don't see how the other guys deal with women except for Gunnar who is utterly inept.
 
G

Groovy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2008
Messages
752
Reaction score
22
NOOO, I just got spoiled! God, please don't do this to me... :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top