Evil_Muska
Don Juan
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I've been doing some thinking about the idea of approaching women in general, and I've realized that one big reason a lot of guys are afraid of asking a woman out, is they don't know what to do if they get rejected, hence: they have no Exit Strategy.
Countless times I've found myself asking a girl out, getting rejected, and just standing there... not knowing what to say. So I end up saying something stupid and/or just walking away. I personally think it would be worth discussing how to deal with this part of the situation, hence: how to walk away from rejection without making a fool out of yourself and becoming discouraged in trying again with someone else.
Example: There's this girl at a local Subway that I was flirting with, and I decided I wanted to try asking her out the next time I was there. I know how to ask, so I spent my time thinking about "How do I make a smooth exit if she says she has a boyfriend?"
What I came up with was something to the effect of "That's too bad, we could a had a lot of fun together" or just smile and be like "Such a shame, guess you'll just have to miss out then huh?"
Having these exits in mind gives me loads more confidence, cuz I know if things don't go the way I want, I can walk away still looking and feeling good about myself.
So yeah, what is ya'lls take on the Exit Strategy?
Countless times I've found myself asking a girl out, getting rejected, and just standing there... not knowing what to say. So I end up saying something stupid and/or just walking away. I personally think it would be worth discussing how to deal with this part of the situation, hence: how to walk away from rejection without making a fool out of yourself and becoming discouraged in trying again with someone else.
Example: There's this girl at a local Subway that I was flirting with, and I decided I wanted to try asking her out the next time I was there. I know how to ask, so I spent my time thinking about "How do I make a smooth exit if she says she has a boyfriend?"
What I came up with was something to the effect of "That's too bad, we could a had a lot of fun together" or just smile and be like "Such a shame, guess you'll just have to miss out then huh?"
Having these exits in mind gives me loads more confidence, cuz I know if things don't go the way I want, I can walk away still looking and feeling good about myself.
So yeah, what is ya'lls take on the Exit Strategy?