"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Ex Regrets Dumping Me

soulforge

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I was in a relationship with a toxic woman for around 3 years on and off.. she dumped me last Christmas..

For the last 3 months, she has been trying her best to contact me, as she is regretting her decision..


I have all the power back.. but for some reason I dont feel that much better.. yeh its good to know that she regretted dumping me

But I still feel a sense of loss.. it is me who has ended up dumping her, by ignoring every attempt she made to reach out.


Did you ex regret her decision and try to come back? How did you feel about it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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soulforge said:
I was in a relationship with a toxic woman for around 3 years on and off.. she dumped me last Christmas..

For the last 3 months, she has been trying her best to contact me, as she is regretting her decision..


I have all the power back.. but for some reason I dont feel that much better.. yeh its good to know that she regretted dumping me

But I still feel a sense of loss.. it is me who has ended up dumping her, by ignoring every attempt she made to reach out.


Did you ex regret her decision and try to come back? How did you feel about it.
8 months and you're still thinking of her?

you said she is toxic, be glad it's over, keep the power forever. move on, be happy without her, your relationship with her will never work.

you know what's going to happen if you get back with her? she is going to get the power back bro, she will dump you again.

pound some new pvssy, you won't feel a sense of loss, your sense of loss is coming from no other optons, get some, you will see a change, you don't need that ex, dont go back to her.
 

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asa_don said:
8 months and you're still thinking of her?

you said she is toxic, be glad it's over, keep the power forever. move on, be happy without her, your relationship with her will never work.

you know what's going to happen if you get back with her? she is going to get the power back bro, she will dump you again.

pound some new pvssy, you won't feel a sense of loss, your sense of loss is coming from no other optons, get some, you will see a change, you don't need that ex, dont go back to her.

Since her, I have banged many chicks.. lol currently have 3 plates on the go.. but this ex somehow enters back into my mind, every time I move on.

She is persistent.. twice she has come to my house, and left hand writen letters for me.. she has been hounding me on pof lol and on another site.


The only way to make them regret there decision is, complete no contact.. move on.. let her epxerience what life is like without you.

She thinks she will find better.. leave her to it... then let her live with regret.


In my case, I could never let her back into my life.. she is a huuge risk and a lost cause
 

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Yes this has happened several times, and one ex has attempted to recapture me twice. I told her she was too fat since she gained a bunch of weight and then she showed up again 4 years later skinnier than I ever saw her, but now she was too old LOL

Really I'm just fairly indifferent about it. It's amusing, but I never go see them like they request.
 
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