My last girlfriend I was with for two years; we broke up because I convinced her to go back to Uni and soon she didn't have time for a relationship and had to choose, so I chose for her and said we would be friends until we/her/I can figure out how to make it work.
Six weeks later I hadn't seen her once, she kept coming up with excuses - but seemed to somehow have the time to party from one end of the county to the other- and then she told me by text she was seeing someone else. I told her to meet me and explain how in one month she'd gotten over a two year relationship and found the time for a new one with someone else - who she'd known whilst we were together - and she told me to fvck off and leave her alone, it's over, get over it, move on, she has, and that I was too poor to give a girl the life that she wants.
I cut her off immediately.
Five months later. She messages me telling me she is so sorry, wants me back in her life, etc. So I told her I knew now they were together before we were apart, we know too many of the same people, and that I have come to terms with it and wish them well but will never forgive her or have her back in my life.
She denies it, and still contacts, we're sort of in a stand off of some kind. She's swerving between wanting to be friends, and her boyfriend not liking it and can we just be civil in passing in the street instead, and I'm like no-way you face me, period.
She phoned me the other morning, and promptly acted surprised after a few seconds and declared she had called the wrong number. Considering he's under C and I'm under R, and that she was using someone elses phone without either number in it I presume, I find that hard to believe.
Advice?
Six weeks later I hadn't seen her once, she kept coming up with excuses - but seemed to somehow have the time to party from one end of the county to the other- and then she told me by text she was seeing someone else. I told her to meet me and explain how in one month she'd gotten over a two year relationship and found the time for a new one with someone else - who she'd known whilst we were together - and she told me to fvck off and leave her alone, it's over, get over it, move on, she has, and that I was too poor to give a girl the life that she wants.
I cut her off immediately.
Five months later. She messages me telling me she is so sorry, wants me back in her life, etc. So I told her I knew now they were together before we were apart, we know too many of the same people, and that I have come to terms with it and wish them well but will never forgive her or have her back in my life.
She denies it, and still contacts, we're sort of in a stand off of some kind. She's swerving between wanting to be friends, and her boyfriend not liking it and can we just be civil in passing in the street instead, and I'm like no-way you face me, period.
She phoned me the other morning, and promptly acted surprised after a few seconds and declared she had called the wrong number. Considering he's under C and I'm under R, and that she was using someone elses phone without either number in it I presume, I find that hard to believe.
Advice?
