the ex-boyfriend

[nextelman]

i dunno, i've been feeling kinda crappy, we had an agreement about the GF being blunt vs. hurting other's feelings.

but anyway it's my girl's time of the month, and she just lost one of her diamond earrings, possible from an ex. she was drinking a bit, and possibly called her ex .. and told him about the earring. i go away, and next thing you know she's CRYING. she trys to hides her tears after i come backk. i ask her what's wrong? and she wouldn't tell me .. but since i'm secure, i didnt' ask her. but i'm starting to feel as if she's keeping something from me. what SHOULD I DO!? should i confront her? maybe the earring's linked to their past? she said she's gonna give it away anyways. but i feel like she has not completely let go of the past maybe? but i dunno .. we're totally established. maybe i amm a little insecure.

maybe she had noone to turn to after that argument? soo she called the ex? i dunno .. HELP

 

[BrotherAP]

Why is your girl talking to her ex-boyfriend anyway? You don't have to 'be secure' and put up with that.

 

[themanwithnoname]

You can either let this slide, or you talk about it, choose.

 

[penkitten]

drinking or not...
time of the month or not...

why would she call her ex to say she lost a "diamond" earring he possibly gave her?

this is bs!!

 

[nextelman]

this is bullshiet indeed, she told me that she still has feelings for her ex. told me she needed to talk to him and see what happens.

now after threaten to break up, she said she just need closure, so she'll be able to start something new with me.

but i wouldn't be second .. i broke up with her, and now i feel horrible. did i make the right decision?

 

[JohnJones]

Yes. It's her problem to be a whole person if she's going to be with you. This is just cr@p where she likes a stable of people to whom she matters because her brain is not full enough on its own.

IF you take her back, she will have your b@lls in her pocket.

 

[D^G4m3]

Originally posted by nextelman
but i wouldn't be second .. i broke up with her, and now i feel horrible. did i make the right decision?

Well the good news is you haven't lost nothing. I can write a whole article on how u have done exactly the right thing. She was using u all this time to boost her ****ing' ego. And how cud u still stick with her after the fact that she told u..she still has feelings for her ex.?!!..HOw cud ya possibly tolerate such disrespect? U have answered petty well to dat by breaking up with her. She really made it hard on you to stand it rite?..I know man.

Once again, u done gr8!
dude, and u haven't lost anything, trust me, she ain't worth being your gal. well the only big deal I c here is that
"SHE LOST A DIAMOND..yes a DIAMOND "...lol