“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The evolution of my GAME

Casino

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I'm sitting here kind of thinking of how my game has developed. What I've learned. What I need to work on.

I was ****y and funny before I had ever heard of David D'Angelo. My M.O. was always being the class clown, cracking jokes, just being an a-hole. Plus I was pretty social and athletci. This was during middle school and freshman year of high school. For the most part I had the girls chasing me. In retrospect it was a combination C&F+looks+athletics and playing hard to get. It all came to a culmination during the last day of 8th grade when 3 girls asked me out. The best was probably a HB7. The other two were ehhhhhhhh..

So entering HS I went through a pretty bad depression. The funny thing is that since I had all those girls chasing me and asking me out I wasn't emotionally mature enough to enter in a relationship. Thus, a bunch of my jealous classmates started a rumor that I was gay. It got pretty out of hand.

So anyways I guess I could never outlive that and my HS player career was pretty much non-existent. I managed to pull a few HB8's but nothing of super great caliber. Mainly because the city I lived in really didn't harvest many HB's. You see a theme? All the chicks I ever got Chased me? It wasn't a good thing though because I couldn't muster the courage to do approaches. In hindsight I probably was so stupid with women that I turned down massive IOI's. I probably could of been Zach Morris of my HS but I didn't have the confidence.

In my time I had ONE really bad AFC moment. Which consisted of me pretty much smothering a girl. We both had a thing for each other but I didn't exercise enough scarcity and ended up being looked at as some kind of end table. You know? just another thing that was always around.

So then a roomate of mine had this book called "The pimp game: By Mickey Royale" It was some kind of pimp guide. That actually opened my eyes to the art of picking up. It stressed alot of the same principles of the PUA community. One of the biggest things I took away was that a King is seldom seen. when he mingles with the common folk to much he because just that: common folk. Alot of the other stuff was pretty humourous but very sadistic. I recommend it for another look on PUA.

Found the community last year and have made tons of changes in my inner game and mentality.

So.........

Today I've got a firm handle on most of this stuff. i can SARGE the hell out of 6's and below. MASSIVE IOI's from these girls. The problem is: Im very picky. I don't like 6's and below. My game just flows. I can be C&F all day long and mix in the bad boy image now and really mack hard on that level when taking to this group of girls. But anything HB7 and above and I freeze up like a little punk. I think I still have a few inferiority issues due to a recent weight gain. I feel that once I get my physical health situation under control I'll be able to mack harder on the HB7s and above.

Any advice when dealing with the HB7's and above? Keep in mind. An HB7 in my town has the same frame as an HB9 in say LA or NY because there are few HB's per capita where I live.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm sure you can appreciate having your advice fed back to you but: DONT CHASE THEM.

You freeze up? Why? Because you're approaching them?

Try getting them into your social circle and social proofing them. They'll come to you. Guaranteed.

Your mentality is all wrong. Few HB7s per capita? Stop thinking like that. Forget about the HB7s and the R2-f*cking-D2s.

I'm a scrawny-ass pasty white boy who should repel women, but time and again I can attract them usually with body language and social proof alone (that's not to say I don't SPEAK once they come to me :))

Try qualifying them... that'll set up your frame much better than its current scarcity mode.

Don't ask "So what do you do for fun?", ask, "So do you do anything fun in your life, or is this pretty much it?"

(That might be too harsh... add some of teh funnay... at any rate, you get the point.)

This says, "I am trying to figure out if you are good enough for me."

I personally think HB7s and HB8s are particularly tricky because they're on the cusp and you might think you "automatically" can get them if you're used to dealing with 9s and 10s. For that reason, you might let down your guard, and bam, they'll walk all over you just like a 9 or 10.

It's actually easier to deal with rediculously gorgeous women: they will provide you with a visual reminder to leave any dumbass AFC thoughts at home.

**I don't mean "you" are a dumbass, I am directing some lighthearted anger at the AFC thoughts themselves. :)
 

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No doubt. I think you bring up a really good point on Social Proof. I just have to adjust my inner game.

I have to get over the mental hurdle that these girls are ABOVE ME.

I know they aren't. And I truely do believe im the prize. I'm not just saying it. It's not an affirmation. I've got tons of things going for me. But when I get around these HB's it goes out the window.

Point taken though. I'll work on that.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
No doubt. I think you bring up a really good point on Social Proof. I just have to adjust my inner game.

I have to get over the mental hurdle that these girls are ABOVE ME.

I know they aren't. And I truely do believe im the prize. I'm not just saying it. It's not an affirmation. I've got tons of things going for me. But when I get around these HB's it goes out the window.

Point taken though. I'll work on that.
As David DeAngelo says, if you see a hot girl and your thoughts suddenly shift to her ("Wow I'd like to stick it in there") she's AFFECTING your REALITY.

DON'T give her that power, especially before you even approach her.

This is an ongoing battle with me, too. Always say to yourself any or all of the following upon spotting a hot girl:

"she's not that cute"
"I could do better"
"NEXT"
"I wonder if there's more to her than her looks"

I'm sure you can come up with more.

It's funny, I used to try to stop them from affecting my reality because I wanted to "get" them.

Now I try to stop them from affecting my reality because I want to stop them from affecting my reality---it pisses me off! Why the hell should I have to pay so much damned attention to them?

I get angry at my biology quite frequently, you'll have to forgive me. And I don't mean my physical biology.

So she's got nice, tanned, curvey legs sticking out of her way too fricking tight short shorts. Take all that that image commands and REDIRECT it INWARD to YOU. FEEL that power coming back toward you. Use her image to identify that power and amplify it for your own good. You've had girls hotter than her, and seeing a girl that hot just reminds you that you are the ****.
 

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Man...yah. that makes alot of sense. I like what you are saying.

By nature im a pretty analytical person. I should just react rather than think of the consequences. I'm just going to start treating HB's like I would fat chicks.

I'll report back my findings.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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