raven_82
Don Juan
I just got this book: The Art of Imperfection and it has the rules of etiquette for shy people to not give off the effect that they are shy.
Here they are:
-Look ahead when entering a room.
-Take a second to draw your weight up, loosen your arms, and open your chest.
-Make eye contact with people by foucsing on either their right or their left eyes (at short range, it's impossible to focis on both at the same time).
-Smile at people; it will unclench your teeth and relax your face.
-Be the first to say "Hello"
-As soon as you introduce yourself, initiate a handshake by deliberately extending your hand.
-Firmly take hold of the other person's hand and shake three times.
-Just as deliberately, open your hand and bring it down to your side.
It's not neccessially for talking to women, but the ideas are good for working on your confidence.
Now get going you DJ in training.
Here they are:
-Look ahead when entering a room.
-Take a second to draw your weight up, loosen your arms, and open your chest.
-Make eye contact with people by foucsing on either their right or their left eyes (at short range, it's impossible to focis on both at the same time).
-Smile at people; it will unclench your teeth and relax your face.
-Be the first to say "Hello"
-As soon as you introduce yourself, initiate a handshake by deliberately extending your hand.
-Firmly take hold of the other person's hand and shake three times.
-Just as deliberately, open your hand and bring it down to your side.
It's not neccessially for talking to women, but the ideas are good for working on your confidence.
Now get going you DJ in training.
