"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Ethical Slut

Stagger Lee

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I just ran across this book title, The ethical slut, on a chick's page on OKCupid. It sounds like feminist baloney, but I don't know anything about. I wonder what Roissy would say. Ethical or not a slut is still a slut.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Staggers,
Don Juans make out with Women and refuse comitment...Now decent Women with the traditional Judeo-Christian value system that so many of you younger guys hanker for,just will not buy into this....
Therefore you either lie your teeth out,or indulge in your "Sluts".....
Without them,Life would be rather dull.
 

Zarky

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Knew a chick who loved this book. Banged me on the first date after buying me a drink, and she was cute. So I have no hate toward that book, whatever it says.

If a chick digs that book, chances are she's easy, good news for you.
 
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