"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Eternal Question
- Thread starter jon3947
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Because most of the time , i act like im not impressed by anything .
I wont show my impression because she's grinding , dont wanna be like chump who never had girl rubbin her ass on my d!ck.
PS:Here are many threads about this , search if you wanna get more info .
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Purple-Haze
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Yes, but only if she finds you attractive AND is comfortable enough that she can enjoy the experience (without it creeping her out).jon3947 said:
I can tell you that if it were me, I'd be creeped out (this is highschool, right?).
GaryUranga
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Purple-Haze
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No. What I'm saying is make sure you can predict the reaction. If she seems like the type that wouldn't appreciate an erect penis rubbing up against her thigh, don't do it. If she is eager, then go for it (or pull away when the time comes).jon3947 said:
You do not want to be known as the creepy guy who rubbed his boner up against that poor freshman girl.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.