“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Essence of a Woman....somewhat a dichotomy

The Duke

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Written by Tegan Matthews

Do I obsess? Yes. Do I think of you too often? Also yes. Would I do anything in my power to see you? Emphatically, yes - without a doubt.

It’s hard for me to go on every day without knowing about plans for the future - you are all I think of. I want your soft lips to caress mine. I want you to pull my hair so you can kiss my neck more easily, leaving faint marks on my skin as evidence to remember you for days to come. I want you to dominate my energy against the wall, empowering me as a woman but making me feel a bit on edge and out of control, so I make the choice to submit, following your lead and commands. I want you to instill power within me but allow me to choose submission, trusting you completely.

I want you to look me in the eyes, exposing every strength and weakness housed in our souls. I want to strip myself bare and tell you every provocative thought that runs rapidly through my mind. I want to experience pure erotic bliss for hours, making the culmination worth it for both of us. I want to explode in your mouth as you memorize my taste, ruining your appetite for anyone else in the future.
 

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
 

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
What we say and the way we behave often make noon and midnight appear indistinguishable, by comparison
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
It's not that different from women who demand chivalry, but only when they can force it out of a man instead of him doing it willingly.

The idea of "choosing" submission is the one of the more retarded things I've ever heard.
 

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Written by Tegan Matthews

Do I obsess? Yes. Do I think of you too often? Also yes. Would I do anything in my power to see you? Emphatically, yes - without a doubt.

It’s hard for me to go on every day without knowing about plans for the future - you are all I think of. I want your soft lips to caress mine. I want you to pull my hair so you can kiss my neck more easily, leaving faint marks on my skin as evidence to remember you for days to come. I want you to dominate my energy against the wall, empowering me as a woman but making me feel a bit on edge and out of control, so I make the choice to submit, following your lead and commands. I want you to instill power within me but allow me to choose submission, trusting you completely.

I want you to look me in the eyes, exposing every strength and weakness housed in our souls. I want to strip myself bare and tell you every provocative thought that runs rapidly through my mind. I want to experience pure erotic bliss for hours, making the culmination worth it for both of us. I want to explode in your mouth as you memorize my taste, ruining your appetite for anyone else in the future.
It's a great insight into passion. Love is a choice, but what's written here speaks to infatuation. It's fun, but dangerous if a man gets too caught up.

A man should always remain in control, providing the space and time for the woman to experience the above. Problems arise when men try to create this environment out of resentment or fear. Thus the woman tests to make sure he's coming from a healthy headspace.

And naturally a man that's centered has boundaries and always effortlessly enforces them, or simply leaves. A woman's mind is a playground men use to hone all the best qualities of a strong partner in themselves.

The more intimate your relationship with her, the more she'll be able to reflect your weaknesses. Ideally the only thing she finds to reflect are strengths, so use every reflection as fuel for growth and you're unstoppable. She'll either follow or leave, but you'll grow regardless.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I want you to dominate my energy against the wall, empowering me as a woman but making me feel a bit on edge and out of control, so I make the choice to submit, following your lead and commands. I want you to instill power within me but allow me to choose submission, trusting you completely.
Sounds like something a person afflicted with dementia might say.
 

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One of the biggest mistakes men make is they don't learn to think like a woman.

What was quoted above may not make logical sense to you, but it makes perfect sense from a female's standpoint. Also makes sense to a player or casanova. Step outside your paradigm and you'll get better at seduction instead of being left to complain that women don't make sense.
 

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With most women it's best to fvck them, let them initiate and let it run its course without breaking the cycle and giving up power. And some will chase for quite a long time.
End it with them when it needs to be done and always have a few backups waiting for their turn.
There are some exceptions of women, but they are rare.
 

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
Pretty simple when dissected.

Women yearn to submit (and after all, it is ingrained),
but only to men worthy of their submission.
 
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