"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Essence of a Woman....somewhat a dichotomy

The Duke

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Written by Tegan Matthews

Do I obsess? Yes. Do I think of you too often? Also yes. Would I do anything in my power to see you? Emphatically, yes - without a doubt.

It’s hard for me to go on every day without knowing about plans for the future - you are all I think of. I want your soft lips to caress mine. I want you to pull my hair so you can kiss my neck more easily, leaving faint marks on my skin as evidence to remember you for days to come. I want you to dominate my energy against the wall, empowering me as a woman but making me feel a bit on edge and out of control, so I make the choice to submit, following your lead and commands. I want you to instill power within me but allow me to choose submission, trusting you completely.

I want you to look me in the eyes, exposing every strength and weakness housed in our souls. I want to strip myself bare and tell you every provocative thought that runs rapidly through my mind. I want to experience pure erotic bliss for hours, making the culmination worth it for both of us. I want to explode in your mouth as you memorize my taste, ruining your appetite for anyone else in the future.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
 

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
What we say and the way we behave often make noon and midnight appear indistinguishable, by comparison
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
It's not that different from women who demand chivalry, but only when they can force it out of a man instead of him doing it willingly.

The idea of "choosing" submission is the one of the more retarded things I've ever heard.
 

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Written by Tegan Matthews

Do I obsess? Yes. Do I think of you too often? Also yes. Would I do anything in my power to see you? Emphatically, yes - without a doubt.

It’s hard for me to go on every day without knowing about plans for the future - you are all I think of. I want your soft lips to caress mine. I want you to pull my hair so you can kiss my neck more easily, leaving faint marks on my skin as evidence to remember you for days to come. I want you to dominate my energy against the wall, empowering me as a woman but making me feel a bit on edge and out of control, so I make the choice to submit, following your lead and commands. I want you to instill power within me but allow me to choose submission, trusting you completely.

I want you to look me in the eyes, exposing every strength and weakness housed in our souls. I want to strip myself bare and tell you every provocative thought that runs rapidly through my mind. I want to experience pure erotic bliss for hours, making the culmination worth it for both of us. I want to explode in your mouth as you memorize my taste, ruining your appetite for anyone else in the future.
It's a great insight into passion. Love is a choice, but what's written here speaks to infatuation. It's fun, but dangerous if a man gets too caught up.

A man should always remain in control, providing the space and time for the woman to experience the above. Problems arise when men try to create this environment out of resentment or fear. Thus the woman tests to make sure he's coming from a healthy headspace.

And naturally a man that's centered has boundaries and always effortlessly enforces them, or simply leaves. A woman's mind is a playground men use to hone all the best qualities of a strong partner in themselves.

The more intimate your relationship with her, the more she'll be able to reflect your weaknesses. Ideally the only thing she finds to reflect are strengths, so use every reflection as fuel for growth and you're unstoppable. She'll either follow or leave, but you'll grow regardless.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I want you to dominate my energy against the wall, empowering me as a woman but making me feel a bit on edge and out of control, so I make the choice to submit, following your lead and commands. I want you to instill power within me but allow me to choose submission, trusting you completely.
Sounds like something a person afflicted with dementia might say.
 

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One of the biggest mistakes men make is they don't learn to think like a woman.

What was quoted above may not make logical sense to you, but it makes perfect sense from a female's standpoint. Also makes sense to a player or casanova. Step outside your paradigm and you'll get better at seduction instead of being left to complain that women don't make sense.
 

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With most women it's best to fvck them, let them initiate and let it run its course without breaking the cycle and giving up power. And some will chase for quite a long time.
End it with them when it needs to be done and always have a few backups waiting for their turn.
There are some exceptions of women, but they are rare.
 

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To point out how ridiculous women can be.

Dominate me....empower me....let me make the choice to submit.

Instill power within me.....but allow me to choose submission.


Its all over the road. Spoken like a true woman. Its never A or B. Many guys here like to think its that simple and they go wrong quite often.
Pretty simple when dissected.

Women yearn to submit (and after all, it is ingrained),
but only to men worthy of their submission.
 
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