"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OldNumb3r7

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The short story of it, me and my gf had been having some very rough times. On and off, I didnt know what the status was. We'd hang out, and fool around etc. So last friday, I go over her house (she picks me up, first mistake) she was out, and I had just got home from being out. So, I go with her. Going into her house, she says "Want to hear a funny story"........"OK"........" me and Dave went out on a date a couple weeks ago"

Now, this hit me. The Dave is the younger (19) brother of a former coworker, who I know talked about me/made fun of me behind my back. He worked with my gf too. So I was pissed.

She didnt seem to understand why I was pissed. She said it was innocent, going to dinner, then COMING BACK TO HER HOUSE!. She said "he only kissed me on the cheek." Well that did it. Long story short, I wanted to go home. I offered her gas money to take me home. She wouldnt (left my car at home).

So I got my brother to come get me, She asked me to stay several times, and "hold her". I left............most likely for good.

I felt like she was going behind my back, we were talking, hanging out, and fooling around. Like old times.

So here I am.....starting again. Aye de mi!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You handled this perfectly in my opinion. Chances are that she will be calling you non-stop trying to apologize..This is a real shot at setting the law down and taking total power in the relationship. It's your choice to take her back or not.
 

Legend

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i feel your pain man

I can see why you are mad/upset. She betrayed you. She sounds like my witch of an ex.
 
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