"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The effect of a nice car on girls...?

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Background on me: average looking, big guy. grew up poor but recently starting making money

so there are a few people on here that have gone on and on about how having a nice car helps drastically....so how would you use a nice car to your advantage?

I bought a new 2010 camaro with all the options and everything a couple weeks ago and i still havent been able to use it to pick up yet.... I was driving down the street the other day and a 19 year old-looking hb7.5 literally stopped walking and stared at the car with her mouth open....im not exagerrating lol....another hb7 girl just waved at me....a couple girls have said from the sidewalk when my windows are down "nice car" or "i like your car"....

how do i use this car to my advantage?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You don't make the initial contact with the car. It may draw attention, but there's NO WAY you can roll down your window and ask for a number without seeming like a creepy loser.

Here's what you do...you LEARN TO TALK TO GIRLS, meet a cute young'un, get her number, call her up for a date, THEN you pick her up in your Camaro.

THAT is where the car comes into play...after you've already snagged SOME level of interest from her and have set up the date. That is the time for a woman to be impressed with your ride...when she's already in it.

It will not, however, do the work for you. If you are a chump and you buy a nice car, you are now a chump with a nice car.
 

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It looks like no one answered your question. Keep your ride clean and keep going out to areas where you will be seen. These women are not going to just jump into your car and give you their number. You're going to have to do some talking. When the girl waved at you did you wave back? You could have pulled over and waved her over to your car. I would bet money that she would have walked over to you. I would have told the girls from the sidewalk thanks to the "I like your car" comment and asked them If they want to test drive it.( I wouldn't really let them drive it) That's just me though. I come off blunt but harmless so it works for me.

The car is going to help spark interest, you're going to have to be ready to act on it without being creapy. What do you guys think?
 

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Ill say this,... It helps your own confidence because you feel good in a nice car.
When i had my Infiniti, i loved it and felt good driving around, always kept it waxed and clean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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squirrels said:
You don't make the initial contact with the car. It may draw attention, but there's NO WAY you can roll down your window and ask for a number without seeming like a creepy loser.
I dunno ive done this and girls crazy enough have gotten in lol. One time i saw this damn cute italian chick walkin by she was checkin me out hardcore but i got in my car and was headed to the store. As i was driving away, i said to myself fvck it, i backed up and rolled down my passenger side window, she smiled and i said "Hey, i had to back up and talk to you" she blushed and i asked her name, Then i said where are you goin cutie, she says to the train, i said get in. she got in and i started gaming. dropped her off the train with a kiss and we exchanged numbers :)
 

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In2theGame said:
I dunno ive done this and girls crazy enough have gotten in lol. One time i saw this damn cute italian chick walkin by she was checkin me out hardcore but i got in my car and was headed to the store. As i was driving away, i said to myself fvck it, i backed up and rolled down my passenger side window, she smiled and i said "Hey, i had to back up and talk to you" she blushed and i asked her name, Then i said where are you goin cutie, she says to the train, i said get in. she got in and i started gaming. dropped her off the train with a kiss and we exchanged numbers :)
Exactly...she was "checking you out hardcore" before you even GOT to the car.

So you were "in" before she even saw the wheels. Then you pull up, display some confidence, and she gets in.

Now I'll admit that if you had a sh!tbox instead of a nice car, she likely would've been put off. But the car wasn't the first thing to catch her attention.
 

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Get a nice truck. Then if the chick talks too much, you can toss her in the back with the dog and roll up your windows.
 
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this is funny
having a nice car does NOT make you cool
women who will date you coz of your car are not good women
 

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The key to handling having any sort of material wealth in regard to women is to act like you don't notice. They will. You can get street hoochies and jail bait with a nice car or a motorcycle, but that is probably not what you want.

If you do get into a relationship with a woman, she will want to be able to brag to her friends about you. The car is a tangible example of your maturity and hard work, which are all valid traits that women look for in men, street hoochies aside.

Having said that, I know of a 30 y/o guy who had a midlife crisis, left his wife and kid, got a job at a factory, then leveraged all his future earnings for a new Mustang, which he uses to pick up any tramp he can get. Similar to the way that we say to not let a woman define you, don't let your possessions define you, either. Or else you lose them and feel like you have nothing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bible_Belt said:
The key to handling having any sort of material wealth in regard to women is to act like you don't notice. They will. You can get street hoochies and jail bait with a nice car or a motorcycle, but that is probably not what you want.

If you do get into a relationship with a woman, she will want to be able to brag to her friends about you. The car is a tangible example of your maturity and hard work, which are all valid traits that women look for in men, street hoochies aside.

Having said that, I know of a 30 y/o guy who had a midlife crisis, left his wife and kid, got a job at a factory, then leveraged all his future earnings for a new Mustang, which he uses to pick up any tramp he can get. Similar to the way that we say to not let a woman define you, don't let your possessions define you, either. Or else you lose them and feel like you have nothing.
u always have good advice :yes:
 

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Bible_Belt said:
The key to handling having any sort of material wealth in regard to women is to act like you don't notice.
^^^^
THIS

Whenever I bring a girl home and I put the car in the garage, they always notice my two babies and say: "OMG vatoloco! I didn't know you had two motorcycles!" or "Why didn't you tell me you had two bikes!?"

My reply is either "I didn't!? I guess I forgot!" or "Well, you hadn't asked." ;)
 

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Nice cars are cool, but they don't affect my attraction towards the driver. However if the nice car is giving the guy more confidence then I will be attracted to his confidence, but he shouldn't confuse this with me being attracted to the fact he's got a nice car. I'd say it's more often the car is affecting the driver than the girl, but people assume it's just the fact he's got a nice car.

Obviously if the girl is a goldigga then that's a different story and she is attracted to the wallet and the car.
 

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Where I'm from guys with cool cars get girls because of their car. They hang out on the side of the road in town center with their car doors open, car on, and just hanging outside of the car. A group of young girls walk buy and want pictures with the car and cute guy and next thing the guy is giving them a ride in his car. I'm sure from there you can imagine what happens in the car.
 

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you should of pulled over and called them. you could of been banging them right now!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squirrels said:
You don't make the initial contact with the car. It may draw attention, but there's NO WAY you can roll down your window and ask for a number without seeming like a creepy loser.

Here's what you do...you LEARN TO TALK TO GIRLS, meet a cute young'un, get her number, call her up for a date, THEN you pick her up in your Camaro.

THAT is where the car comes into play...after you've already snagged SOME level of interest from her and have set up the date. That is the time for a woman to be impressed with your ride...when she's already in it.

It will not, however, do the work for you. If you are a chump and you buy a nice car, you are now a chump with a nice car.
.....can't find anything wrong with this at all.

GOLDEN advice!
 
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