"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The earlier the less awkward.

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Also, something I realized. Here is the weird thing.. WHenever we get a new chick employee, its BETTER to show you are interested right away by asking "are you single?" rather than later.. it just seems awkward if you ask this at a later time. Anyone agree?

Lastnight, I asked a chick who I have been working with for a while now but she would flirt with me and stuff, and so I popped the "do you have a BF" question (next time I will ask "are you single" instead) and it felt awkward after.

Anyway, wouldn't you agree that you are better off asking "are you single" the first time you meet a chick than later?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Naturally. Women have a sixth sense when it comes men. They can tell when a guy has experience with women and when he doesn't. You hesitate too long and you can be sure she'll know that you're afraid to show interest.
 

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WC2 said:
Naturally. Women have a sixth sense when it comes men. They can tell when a guy has experience with women and when he doesn't. You hesitate too long and you can be sure she'll know that you're afraid to show interest.
Its actually not that hard to figure out. :rolleyes:
 
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