California Love
Master Don Juan
Hey bros,
I have a quite unusual problem here. I've been going out with a girl for about a month or so (not long at all). Before Christmas, I had been rather cold towards her, and unintentionally hinted to her friends that I wanted to break up. This girl has too many warning signs on her
-mother is super-dominant
-father is much better looking than mother
-attention-craving
-flirty
-unusual values
-inexperienced
-influenced by magazines, friends, mom
Plus, she's not offering much in any department - looks, intelligence, personality. I admired her for her hard work and persistence in school, but i've come to realize that almost all academically-oriented girls are like that.
The problem is, she has things figured out and "wants to dump me first." This would be terrible for image at school and simply for my personal dignity.
I am also unwilling to simply "break it off with her." I'd like to do it in a dignified and kind way, if possible. I'd appreciate any suggestions and past experiences you guys might have.
I have a quite unusual problem here. I've been going out with a girl for about a month or so (not long at all). Before Christmas, I had been rather cold towards her, and unintentionally hinted to her friends that I wanted to break up. This girl has too many warning signs on her
-mother is super-dominant
-father is much better looking than mother
-attention-craving
-flirty
-unusual values
-inexperienced
-influenced by magazines, friends, mom
Plus, she's not offering much in any department - looks, intelligence, personality. I admired her for her hard work and persistence in school, but i've come to realize that almost all academically-oriented girls are like that.
The problem is, she has things figured out and "wants to dump me first." This would be terrible for image at school and simply for my personal dignity.
I am also unwilling to simply "break it off with her." I'd like to do it in a dignified and kind way, if possible. I'd appreciate any suggestions and past experiences you guys might have.