"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The dumb b*tch texts me AND threatens me!? WTF!?

Krak

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I posted this in the Don Juan discussion but I thought I would post it here as well considering the girl just graduated from high school and I graduated last year.

Ok so a few nights ago I received a text message from the girl that made me come to this website. I hate her guts and I guess she hates mine too but this came totally out of the blue for me;

Her: I guess (friend) scared u...
Me: What? Who's this?
Her: Bla...
Me: Wow. Scared me? Wtf?
Her: Now that i'm out of high school i can really convey how much i honestly hate u.
Me: Ok great, tell someone who cares. Bye
Her: **** you...its so not over u pathetic bastard

About her friend "scaring" me, I haven't seen her friend for as long as I haven't seen her which has been four months. So I don't know what that is supposed to mean.

At this point I'm like, WTF!? No idea what I did to this b*tch. I'm really not worried about it but should I be? Should I ignore this or try to find out what the f*ck is up?

I also talked to a friend about this and he told me a lot of rumors are going around about her and I guess she thinks I started them. My plan is to ignore her and not try to prove my innosence and eventually she will go away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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