"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Drought of 2012

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Here's the drought map, updated weekly:
http://droughtmonitor.unl.edu/monitor.html

I'm at stage 2. Instead of May, it looks like late July outside, and with record heat it feels like it too. Lawns are brown and crunch underfoot. The only gardens that live are the ones that get irrigated, and the bugs are dying of thirst, so they eat everything that the drought doesn't kill. Even the bees are starving for nectar, so they are raiding each other's hives and this makes them aggressive near their hive; they attack and sting people, which is very rare for honey bees.

The commercial corn and bean crops are looking miserable already. If we have the drought I think we will, the price of food is going up. Corn is already at a very high price, largely due to using it for ethanol. Water shortages will be common wherever crops are irrigated. Wildfires will probably be common as well.

It would seem that there has to be a price that corn can reach that would make Congress drop the ethanol mandate, but who knows how high it will be. Natural Gas keeps getting cheaper due to fracking, and I wonder if we'll see more use of it, as the food we are turning into fuel keeps going up in price.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Better forget about long commutes, or long trips to enjoy time off. Better live where you work, and better get a scooter or at least, a motorcycle with a full fairing and a smaller rear sprocket, so you count upon 70 mpg. It's coming, guys. the rest of the world has been paying $7 a gallon or more for gas for many years. We've killed a million people with our military, proving that we will do what it takes to keep gas cheap, but it is inevitably going to seek its true price level.
 

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We might see a lot more LP gas vehicles as the price of gas and diesel rise.

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702304707604577422192910235090.html

I love motorcycles and agree completely with your advice. But fwiw, fairings on bikes are meant for high speeds. It's about impossible to go over 140 mph without a fairing. The mpg a bike gets is not affected very much having by a fairing.
 
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