"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The DreamScar Method

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Intro: The Idea behind this method is to work on my own method of meeting and attracting the women i want to attract to my life. I'm a hopeless romantic in search of love. i know....crazy huh? :crazy:

So here's the game plan so far; let me know what you think.




The DreamScar Method:

Step One: Meet girl; (a.k.a. hook) initial attraction, mention time restraint. Simple routine. Alone. Creative tone

A) Nine-game Routine “How many nines in one-hundred?”

B) “Hey I have to go, but we should hang out sometime” with a friendly smile

Step Two: Pause: create mystery ; execute three-day freeze period.

Step Three: Repeat Steps One and Two if necessary.

Step Four: Isolate for extended amount of time on a specific day. (or split amongst several days different activities also giving casting an atmospheric perspective of dating.)

A) Open up with attraction building material. I.e. do something interactive, possibly a video game or perhaps a jamming session, surfboarding, etc etc.

B) Next comes rapport building material. whilst doing something simple that requires little brainpower. A Game perhaps like chess or another board game, possibly a deck of cards…the choice is yours. Demonstrate that the main purpose of the game is just a distraction to steal a chance to get to know her; however observe this action of demonstrating as a tool to stir thought and focus the mind.

C) The Cube or similar activity that explores thought and emotions and feeling. Creating an emotional connection between two people.

Step Five: Create the atmospheric perspective of passionate physical encounters, the ones you see in movies. Live into those moments and you shall encounter the infamous “Just Be Yourself” period.

Step Six: Occasional Romance- Transition into LTR.

Step Seven: Rinse, Wash, Repeat with multiple woman and manage expectations as to create an environment of MLTRs.

Step Eight?: Isolate one target live long life with target creating magical moments together? (I’m a hopeless Romantic :crazy: )​

Feedback appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Roulette

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Ditch the steps man. It's all natural. Routines are so done.

Kudos,
Matt
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i think you guys can't comprehend what i just said...

but thanks for your time,
hopefully somebody who knows his stuff will read that.
 
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