"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The DreamScar Method

SlyD4rK

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Intro: The Idea behind this method is to work on my own method of meeting and attracting the women i want to attract to my life. I'm a hopeless romantic in search of love. i know....crazy huh? :crazy:

So here's the game plan so far; let me know what you think.




The DreamScar Method:

Step One: Meet girl; (a.k.a. hook) initial attraction, mention time restraint. Simple routine. Alone. Creative tone

A) Nine-game Routine “How many nines in one-hundred?”

B) “Hey I have to go, but we should hang out sometime” with a friendly smile

Step Two: Pause: create mystery ; execute three-day freeze period.

Step Three: Repeat Steps One and Two if necessary.

Step Four: Isolate for extended amount of time on a specific day. (or split amongst several days different activities also giving casting an atmospheric perspective of dating.)

A) Open up with attraction building material. I.e. do something interactive, possibly a video game or perhaps a jamming session, surfboarding, etc etc.

B) Next comes rapport building material. whilst doing something simple that requires little brainpower. A Game perhaps like chess or another board game, possibly a deck of cards…the choice is yours. Demonstrate that the main purpose of the game is just a distraction to steal a chance to get to know her; however observe this action of demonstrating as a tool to stir thought and focus the mind.

C) The Cube or similar activity that explores thought and emotions and feeling. Creating an emotional connection between two people.

Step Five: Create the atmospheric perspective of passionate physical encounters, the ones you see in movies. Live into those moments and you shall encounter the infamous “Just Be Yourself” period.

Step Six: Occasional Romance- Transition into LTR.

Step Seven: Rinse, Wash, Repeat with multiple woman and manage expectations as to create an environment of MLTRs.

Step Eight?: Isolate one target live long life with target creating magical moments together? (I’m a hopeless Romantic :crazy: )​

Feedback appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Roulette

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Ditch the steps man. It's all natural. Routines are so done.

Kudos,
Matt
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SlyD4rK

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i think you guys can't comprehend what i just said...

but thanks for your time,
hopefully somebody who knows his stuff will read that.
 
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