the drastic state of our formally fine forums

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Microphone Fiend

Master Don Juan

Apr 20, 2006

but if you "take the initiative to solve your own problems" (your words not mines) then why do you need to ask questions?

It really is a question of perception. A person who asks questions after a month seems stupid because you have seen it answered a lot, but to the person that has been here 6 years, dont all of your questions seem stupid?

Just keep a positive outlook on the forum and it will be reflected by the new posters. A good bit of the new posters are full of negativity and recurring problems. Why is that? Showing them more negativity doesnt seem to be the answer

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.