So for about two and a half months before I met the woman I'm currently seeing (as mentioned in one of my most recent threads), I had a casual dating relationship or fling with a 43 year old woman with three children. That relationship is now officially over and I learned a lot of additional things pertaining to dating older women, particularly those with children:
-Not all single moms particularly in their 40s are necessarily willing to accept that your relationship with them is strictly for fun, casual dating. At some point in time they would tell you they want to bring you closer to their children so that they may get used to you. They would also want to know your family members-siblings, etc. and strive to bring your relationship with them out in the open.
-This particular woman I was seeing had a tendency to regularly send me text messages asking me for instance what I was doing, where I was, etc., at any given moment and that started to make me feel very uncomfortable. She had the strangely negative habit of storing in her cell phone, every text message that I wrote and sent to her to the point where her cell phone msg inbox was so filled up and inundated that she wasn't able to receive additional messages for quite some time. We both had a heated argument over why she kept on choosing to keep every single msg I had sent to her, even though she used to claim to love reading them over and over. I told her I was very uncomfortable about that and it was quite an arduous task to get her to delete all of them.
-The woman was always suspicious, probably feeling threatened or worried that perhaps a younger woman could take her place. Aside from frequently asking me where I was and what I was doing, she had a tendency to stir up trouble and accusations where it wasn't necessary, often suspecting I was hiding something from her, complicating things for no reason and accusing me of things I hadn't done.
It was from the moment about a week and a half ago when I was left with no choice but to cancel our date (I felt I was coming down with malaria) that things officially started to go downhill. As usual, she simply thought I was merely coming up with excuses because there was something I wasn't telling her and I got tired. Since the last disagreement we had, we've both just decided to be quiet and go our separate ways. And the truth too is that when I did meet the younger woman I referred to in one of my most recent posts, I seemed to have naturally lost interest in her and she seemed to sense something had changed.
-Not all single moms particularly in their 40s are necessarily willing to accept that your relationship with them is strictly for fun, casual dating. At some point in time they would tell you they want to bring you closer to their children so that they may get used to you. They would also want to know your family members-siblings, etc. and strive to bring your relationship with them out in the open.
-This particular woman I was seeing had a tendency to regularly send me text messages asking me for instance what I was doing, where I was, etc., at any given moment and that started to make me feel very uncomfortable. She had the strangely negative habit of storing in her cell phone, every text message that I wrote and sent to her to the point where her cell phone msg inbox was so filled up and inundated that she wasn't able to receive additional messages for quite some time. We both had a heated argument over why she kept on choosing to keep every single msg I had sent to her, even though she used to claim to love reading them over and over. I told her I was very uncomfortable about that and it was quite an arduous task to get her to delete all of them.
-The woman was always suspicious, probably feeling threatened or worried that perhaps a younger woman could take her place. Aside from frequently asking me where I was and what I was doing, she had a tendency to stir up trouble and accusations where it wasn't necessary, often suspecting I was hiding something from her, complicating things for no reason and accusing me of things I hadn't done.
It was from the moment about a week and a half ago when I was left with no choice but to cancel our date (I felt I was coming down with malaria) that things officially started to go downhill. As usual, she simply thought I was merely coming up with excuses because there was something I wasn't telling her and I got tired. Since the last disagreement we had, we've both just decided to be quiet and go our separate ways. And the truth too is that when I did meet the younger woman I referred to in one of my most recent posts, I seemed to have naturally lost interest in her and she seemed to sense something had changed.
