"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Dove Campaign

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This is a bogus campaign.

According to the Dove Campaign its purpose is to promote "Real Beauty" and raising self-esteem while slamming the media image of today's attractive women.

The reality is that it is another media outlet that is selling something (it cares about selling soap not making the world better). Another reality is that the it is MEN not WOMEN who pick their mate mostley soley based on looks, youth and health. You can't be politically correct on something like this that took millions of years of evloution to create.

Just take a look at the following 3 models:

http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/splash.asp?theme=65&src=InsideCampaign_rndLink_TickBox_65

(Yes she is oversized. If you place a photo of her after she loses 30-40 lbs then most men won't have a problem with picking the outstanding box. Its fine if this is your size but it comes back to what men are looking for it and that is health. Fat is not attractive. They are better off promoting healthy life style and not body acceptence.)

http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/splash.asp?theme=66&src=InsideCampaign_rndLink_TickBox_66

(Yes she is wrinkled because she is an older women. It is a fact of life. I assume this woman in her 50's (or 60's) and thus most men would rather pick a youthful looking woman. Accept that fact that your reproduction period has passed and don't try to compete with younger women.)

http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/splash.asp?theme=108&src=InsideCampaign_rndLink_TickBox_108

(This woman is not flawless nor flawed. However clear skin indicates that the woman is in better health, another important aspect of reproduction and mate selection).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Potbelly

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wow where the FOCK did they find such fuglies!
 

The Truth

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DJDamage said:
Fat is not attractive. They are better off promoting healthy life style and not body acceptence.)
I am with you on that!

It annoys me how we are made to feel guilty about judging fat people as unattractive! Why should we feel guilty? It's our natural make up that decides who we find attractive or who we don't. Do they expect us to pretend?

My girlfriend once asked me "Will you still love me if I got fat?" I said, yes I'd still love her, but I probably wouldn't fancy her. She got quite offended so I asked "Would you still fancy me if I didn't wash or shave or got face piercings or tattoos?" She said she wouldn't then tried to use the "that's self inflicted" argument. I explained so is being fat!

So many people try to be politically correct these days, it's like a form of brainwashing. It's like women who say looks don't matter and all they want is a man with a sense of humour...total bullsh*t!!

Yes it's really nice to think everybody is equal, but they are not! Some are more successful, genetically better, fitter and healthier, smarter and so on. That's how it is and we can't go through life blocking out the facts.
 

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Although they didn't admit it publicly (of course they didn't), in the cosmetics industry, their campaign has been regarded as a textbook case of marketing failure.

For example, in Paris, their huge billboards portraying a group of smiling overweight and ugly women were mysteriously and silently pulled out after not even two weeks of display. They switched back to their "traditional" white and pure Dove style as if the campaign never existed...:crackup:

What were they thinking???!!! Sure you need to be creative and unconventional when you do marketing, but you can't work against nature. And nature (our genes) tells us to prefer healthy and beautiful women. It has never changed through our millions of years of evolution, and it never will.

I do respect fat/ugly/old/etc... women, I'm just NOT attracted to them and I don't find them beautiful. No hard feelings.

Oh by the way, Dove sucks, l'Oréal rules!
I might be biased since I will be working for l'Oréal in a couple of months...:whistle:
 

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The reality is that it is another media outlet that is selling something (it cares about selling soap not making the world better).
This is a good point to bring out. Note that Dove won't get any support from men, but will get support from women who not only use their product, but who think that men should judge women on their personality and their smile rather than their looks.

If you get more men than women voting on these polls, they wouldn't get the expected results. Hell, the results they already have aren't great.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I reckon a perfume company should come out with a cool ad that says "NO FAT CHICKS!"
 
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